"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tell me where I did wrong. I went to this auto insurance place today with my daughter to get quotes by a girl thats like an HB7.5. She has a nice body and fair sized tits. Anyway, I ask for her business card and kinda gave a hint hint that I was interested in her because i told her thanks for her number and I would call her sometime.And then she got up to shake my hand that it was nice meeting me. So fast forward to an hour later, i call her and say "Hey its me that was there earlier with the little girl" she says "hey whats up"

Me: "Hey what you think about doing something sometime?"
Her: "No sorry I cant i have a boyfriend"
Me: "Thats ok how about just one time I take you out to lunch?"
Her: "No i cant sorry"
Me: "ok bye"

and that was it.

please comment. I swear this girl had like half of her tit/cleavage showing while I was talking to her and I noticed it and she knew i looked at it. What should I have done? I didnt want to try to pick up on her in front of my kid so getting her business card was the best way as a stepping stone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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they all have boyfriends. since she rejected you, i wouldn't be giving her no business. i'd go to her rival company and get me a policy.haha
 
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The nicer the breast, the nicer the sale. Most of these women are taken (Translation: You're not attractive enough)

When you looked at the cleavage, she knew she had you.
 
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This may be crazy, but it's possible she has a boyfriend and is faithful to him.
 
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tihash said:
This may be crazy, but it's possible she has a boyfriend and is faithful to him.
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Yes but that would make too much sense for most here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tihash said:
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That possibility exists as well as the girl could be an attention wh0re.
 
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909pua said:
please comment. I swear this girl had like half of her tit/cleavage showing while I was talking to her and I noticed it and she knew i looked at it. What should I have done? I didnt want to try to pick up on her in front of my kid so getting her business card was the best way as a stepping stone.
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Well, I guess it's cool that you tried. But I don't see any indications that this girl was interested in you in any way. The only thing you can say about her is that she had cleavage showing. What gets you a date isn't asking for it...you have to build some kind of attraction. Can't just show up, ask for a number, and get a date.

What should you have done? I don't know.
A) she might have had a boyfriend.
B) maybe she just didn't like you. It's not like you kicked serious game to her. She's just some random that you came across.
 
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No attraction established

No amplification of emotions

No value established








PIMP
 
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909pua said:
Tell me where I did wrong. I went to this auto insurance place today with my daughter to get quotes by a girl thats like an HB7.5. She has a nice body and fair sized tits. Anyway, I ask for her business card and kinda gave a hint hint that I was interested in her because i told her thanks for her number and I would call her sometime.And then she got up to shake my hand that it was nice meeting me. So fast forward to an hour later, i call her and say "Hey its me that was there earlier with the little girl" she says "hey whats up"

Me: "Hey what you think about doing something sometime?"
Her: "No sorry I cant i have a boyfriend"
Me: "Thats ok how about just one time I take you out to lunch?"
Her: "No i cant sorry"
Me: "ok bye"

and that was it.

please comment. I swear this girl had like half of her tit/cleavage showing while I was talking to her and I noticed it and she knew i looked at it. What should I have done? I didnt want to try to pick up on her in front of my kid so getting her business card was the best way as a stepping stone.
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#1 - "something sometime" is what uncreative, AFC nice guys say.

#2 "take you out to lunch" - typical nice guy pvssy "date" suggestion where your $$ will be wasted, there will be no isolation, and no chance to hook up. You are also lying to both yourself and to her, because you WANT to fvck her, but you are trying to put up a front that you are a nice guy - creepy!!
 
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^ this.

And another problem was that you called her an hour after she gave you her number. I mean, seriously? You sounded a bit desperate man. Did you give her your number?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pimp-sicle said:
No attraction established

No amplification of emotions

No value established

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Exactly. 909pua, where was your nonverbal game? Where was the kino? Where was the sexual escalation?

And with regards to value, you were staring down the boobs of a salesperson in front of your little daughter? :crackup: . I'll give you a high five and laugh with you for doing that, but that's because I'm 19 and in college and I enjoy being a little silly and irresponsible sometimes (within reason and the law, of course). But that kind of lack of discretion might lower your value to a woman you are trying to pick up, it shows irresponsibility and a poor role model to your daughter, what if your kid is like "Daddy, why were you looking at that nice lady's chest?" ?


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#1 - "something sometime" is what uncreative, AFC nice guys say.
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"Something sometime" indicates you aren't too sure of yourself and that you don't know what you're doing! You'll get clues about date ideas in conversations, e.g. if she likes impressionist art, and you heard about a Monet exhibition in your local gallery next week, there you go, a date idea! To get that kindof convo going, you have to engage with her instead of only discussing auto insurance policies!


909pua said:
Anyway, I ask for her business card and kinda gave a hint hint that I was interested in her because i told her thanks for her number and I would call her sometime.And then she got up to shake my hand that it was nice meeting me. So fast forward to an hour later, i call her and say "Hey its me that was there earlier with the little girl" she says "hey whats up"
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See, you don't game her! Her giving a business card wasn't a number close at all! If she gave you her personal cell number, or a personal email, THAT would have been a number/email close! Saying you would call her sometime isn't a hint, it could just mean "I'll call you to confirm the insurance policy", because that's what you were discussing! And her shaking your hand was in NO WAY an IOI, that was strictly professional!

And when you did call, you reminded her who you were, so she would be like "Oh yeah, that was the guy who stared at my tits infront of a little girl who might be his daughter!"

I really don't mean to be hard on you but I hope I brought up some areas of your game that need improving!

Escalation and verbal engagement with a girl are important parts of seduction, if you did those right, then who knows, you might be fvcking her while her boyfriend is away on a business trip in Hawaii!
 
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