Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
Truthfully, I'd rather stay away from this site. My life has hugely improved when the focus wasn't on girls, game and pick up. I don't use PUA techniques, and you'll notice if you care to continue reading.
Unfortunately, this one turned my priorities upside down.
I often take a bus to work, the bus is where I first met her. A mutual friend introduced us. She's wide-eyed and badgered me with questions. I thought she was somewhat cute, but still a 6 or 7 on the scale. A minor side-show amusement at best.
She's a co-worker, we're both temporaries. Our contracts end soon. Initial introductions, interest level was high. I visit her area where she's with her friend and we chat a bit during my break.
When she greeted me in the morning, I didn't notice because she'd whisper it. She told me later that she and her friend thought that I was rude but she learned that I was not a morning person and I shut everything out during the first few hours.
Two days ago, we were about to take the same bus and we missed it. As we chatted I couldn't help but notice the interest level she had, I decided that I'd try her out, out of curiosity. "I'm going into *coffee shop*. To get a *drink*, come if you want."
Maybe my first mistake was sitting there in the coffee shop and letting her chat my ear off for four hours. I thought she was interesting. Devout Christian and our conversations became personal. Maybe I lost the 'mystery' edge, because I used to 'accidentally' ignore her at work.
Parted ways. Later that night, adds me on facebook. To tell me her family has been teasing her about being on a 'date'. She's very young, by the way.
Day 2, not much happened. Though when we walked home, she asked about what I am going to do this weekend. This was yesterday. I said that my friends are still trying to plan. I asked her the same question.
She tells me everything, what she is going to be doing for each day, then tells me she is free saturday.
My friends said they were going to dave and busters, then club later because the building is right next to it. i thought I'd take her there for a first date then part ways with my friends to the club without telling her.
Day 3. Asked her if she was still free saturday, she hesitates and said she probably isn't, because her friends had planned something, but one of them is flaking, and maybe hinted that could pretty much ruin the plan.. She caressed my legs with her feet she asks what I'm doing. I nonchalantly reply that I'm going to D&B with my friends. and 'she can come' if it doesn't work out with her friends.
She asks if it's a 'group thing' I reply 'Probably'.
"I'll let you know." "I'll think about it." I showed no emotion except mild amusement and joked around a bit, but inside... Another story.
When it sunk in. I didn't feel anything, my feelings weren't hurt. I've done this many times, gotten rejected, usually I take it well.
I think the problem is, the rejections were from girls that were incredibly attractive, 9s and 10s. It was fine because accepted that it was a possibility.
I had high expectations and the interest level was high. I hated head games, that is why I've been single for so long and relied on casual game. I've no need for it.
It's lost pride. I still hung out with her a bit just to show everything is normal. What was funny is that her friend not so subtly joked about this girl being 'Forever Alone' and that 'Nobody invites her anywhere'.
To be fair, she did say she had plans. Telling me that she'd let me know would make sense and not make her look desperate.
Dammit, I just wanted some *****. not a loss of pride.
Unfortunately, this one turned my priorities upside down.
I often take a bus to work, the bus is where I first met her. A mutual friend introduced us. She's wide-eyed and badgered me with questions. I thought she was somewhat cute, but still a 6 or 7 on the scale. A minor side-show amusement at best.
She's a co-worker, we're both temporaries. Our contracts end soon. Initial introductions, interest level was high. I visit her area where she's with her friend and we chat a bit during my break.
When she greeted me in the morning, I didn't notice because she'd whisper it. She told me later that she and her friend thought that I was rude but she learned that I was not a morning person and I shut everything out during the first few hours.
Two days ago, we were about to take the same bus and we missed it. As we chatted I couldn't help but notice the interest level she had, I decided that I'd try her out, out of curiosity. "I'm going into *coffee shop*. To get a *drink*, come if you want."
Maybe my first mistake was sitting there in the coffee shop and letting her chat my ear off for four hours. I thought she was interesting. Devout Christian and our conversations became personal. Maybe I lost the 'mystery' edge, because I used to 'accidentally' ignore her at work.
Parted ways. Later that night, adds me on facebook. To tell me her family has been teasing her about being on a 'date'. She's very young, by the way.
Day 2, not much happened. Though when we walked home, she asked about what I am going to do this weekend. This was yesterday. I said that my friends are still trying to plan. I asked her the same question.
She tells me everything, what she is going to be doing for each day, then tells me she is free saturday.
My friends said they were going to dave and busters, then club later because the building is right next to it. i thought I'd take her there for a first date then part ways with my friends to the club without telling her.
Day 3. Asked her if she was still free saturday, she hesitates and said she probably isn't, because her friends had planned something, but one of them is flaking, and maybe hinted that could pretty much ruin the plan.. She caressed my legs with her feet she asks what I'm doing. I nonchalantly reply that I'm going to D&B with my friends. and 'she can come' if it doesn't work out with her friends.
She asks if it's a 'group thing' I reply 'Probably'.
"I'll let you know." "I'll think about it." I showed no emotion except mild amusement and joked around a bit, but inside... Another story.
When it sunk in. I didn't feel anything, my feelings weren't hurt. I've done this many times, gotten rejected, usually I take it well.
I think the problem is, the rejections were from girls that were incredibly attractive, 9s and 10s. It was fine because accepted that it was a possibility.
I had high expectations and the interest level was high. I hated head games, that is why I've been single for so long and relied on casual game. I've no need for it.
It's lost pride. I still hung out with her a bit just to show everything is normal. What was funny is that her friend not so subtly joked about this girl being 'Forever Alone' and that 'Nobody invites her anywhere'.
To be fair, she did say she had plans. Telling me that she'd let me know would make sense and not make her look desperate.
Dammit, I just wanted some *****. not a loss of pride.
