"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i hate that females are so shy

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I was walking through a popular street. Smiling.. Had a good hair day, money in my pocket...etc..

and I noticed that these females like to sneak glances at me. Some smile politely but not enough prolonged eye contact for anything definitive.

'nuff said...
back to basics
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In bed, they're not so shy though. Every girl is a massive wh0re in bed.
 

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^ I can second that and I'm just 16
 

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Yea but this is in the streets...on a weekday....

its like they just linger around me, just enough out of arms length.

fvcking annoying...like say hi or something.
I'm just walking along drinking my drink...and they sneak glances as they walk by. Or pretend to not notice me when they clearly saw me eye to eye.

and I was dressed in my gym shyt and exhausted from work so I wasn't going to be all in the mood to make her day or some shyt.
 

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I'm experiencing this as well. Truth is, you're watching too many movies and music videos.

Honestly, this same thought process is going through their mind as well. They're thinking "why isn't he approaching me", etc because of the movies they see.

Fact is, everyone on an average day is shy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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El Payaso said:
In bed, they're not so shy though. Every girl is a massive wh0re in bed.
Haha truer words have not been spoken. :up:
 

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I don't know, I've a lot of women that will just lay there in bed, actually probably most of them. That's not to say they wouldn't do anything ad everything but required to be lead.

Yeah women are very passive and subtle. About the most they'll give you to work with is a glance or proximity for a few seconds.
 

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I wish they were more shy. To me it's really hot when a girl is super introverted and really shy. I understand it's hard to approach but no way around it. I want to turn myself into an approach machine. Truthfully if I'm at a store or what ever it's unlikely for me to see more than a couple of attractive girls. I should be approaching them all as if it was tinder and I was swiping. I don't have any dating apps at the moment so I really need to approach a lot. A world where girls approach guys as the norm just does not compute.
 

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I wish they were a lot smarter and emotionally stable.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Poop1337 said:
I wish they were more shy. To me it's really hot when a girl is super introverted and really shy.
I agree. There's nothing more hot to me that a woman who is truly feminine: shy, vulnerable, and demure.
 

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I approach on the regular like there's no tomorrow..

but like I said, I was exhausted from work...plus I needed a break from approaching.

I just forgot how passive females can be. They put up such a front.
 

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El Payaso said:
In bed, they're not so shy though. Every girl is a massive wh0re in bed.
as if you would ever know, you haven't even been with a girl before. posters like this are the reason that forums lack credibility, here you have a virgin like el payaso who does not get laid and is obsessed with the posting history of people telling the world about women. smh.
 

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Its evident that I was not dealing with it as best as I could.

stuff has been on my mind...like losing my party friend.

I value your input Jaeger pilot, hate ur drink...but what to do when one can't deal with woman's behavior such like the one I described?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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_sideways_ said:
Its evident that I was not dealing with it as best as I could.

stuff has been on my mind...like losing my party friend.

I value your input Jaeger pilot, hate ur drink...but what to do when one can't deal with woman's behavior such like the one I described?
was being sarcastic but it is the cold harsh truth, the old saying the truth hurts is very valid
 
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