“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I Hate Myself

00Kevin

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I think you are just overracting. The first thing you have to get in your head is that there are very very few women who are even worth it anyway.

I once read an article that stated for every 50 people you ask out only 1 of them is good enough for something more.

What you are experiencing is perfectly normal.

If girls are willing to give you their number then you are not freaking them out and you are doing quite well. What you have to understand is that there is a huge stigma associated with meeting a "guy" at a club or a bar. You either have to close the deal at the club or forget about it.

The good news is that these girls must find somehing attractive about you or they wouldn't of let you have their number.

I think you need to slow down a bit and focus on the quality women that you really like. Then with all the free time you have do something for yourself. Join a martial arts club or go take guitar lessons. Also keep in mind that through your activites of interest you will meet more girls in a natural environment.

Try to move away from the Clubs and focus on your own activites that are not for the sole purpse of meeting a chick.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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chad2k5

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Well, I'm guessing you're physically not very attractive? lololo
 

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I think you need to trace exatcly what the problem is. Have somebody else do the phone work for you, for like 10 numbers and see if they can get a bite. Also, try taking them directly to be as soon as you meet them. Just say 'naw baby I dont use phones.'
 
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