I Hate Myself

[00Kevin]

I think you are just overracting. The first thing you have to get in your head is that there are very very few women who are even worth it anyway.

I once read an article that stated for every 50 people you ask out only 1 of them is good enough for something more.

What you are experiencing is perfectly normal.

If girls are willing to give you their number then you are not freaking them out and you are doing quite well. What you have to understand is that there is a huge stigma associated with meeting a "guy" at a club or a bar. You either have to close the deal at the club or forget about it.

The good news is that these girls must find somehing attractive about you or they wouldn't of let you have their number.

I think you need to slow down a bit and focus on the quality women that you really like. Then with all the free time you have do something for yourself. Join a martial arts club or go take guitar lessons. Also keep in mind that through your activites of interest you will meet more girls in a natural environment.

Try to move away from the Clubs and focus on your own activites that are not for the sole purpse of meeting a chick.

 

[chad2k5]

Well, I'm guessing you're physically not very attractive? lololo

 

[superchristx]

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I think you need to trace exatcly what the problem is. Have somebody else do the phone work for you, for like 10 numbers and see if they can get a bite. Also, try taking them directly to be as soon as you meet them. Just say 'naw baby I dont use phones.'