“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I hate my friends.

Berlex

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I seriously hate my friends. They are always blowing me off :cuss: I think I'm going to be a loner for the rest of my life.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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BacardiGuy said:
Time to find real friends?
i see how this can happen to him. it might be hard if you're still in HS.. you gotta see them every weekday and if you have no real friends there.. *shrug*
 

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If you're in college, and your 'friends' always blow you off, the odds are good that they really aren't your friends. After all, if they were, they would more than likely enjoy your company and want to have you around. The fact that they don't indicates that you may be better off finding other people who actually want to be around you.

Of course, there could be other issues at play here. For example, if you don't bathe on a regular basis, many people aren't going to want to be around you. If you have some huge physical deformity, chances are that people might make excuses not to hang out. If you're a normal guy, go out and meet different normal friends. You don't need to have people hanging out with you in order to meet new people... just go out, be yourself, and see what happens.
 

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yeah I've recently come to the conclusion that my "best friend" has become a lame-ass who never wants to do anything. He uses the excuse that he's always tired from work, but he just works 35-40 hours a week and doesn't even have to get up until 9 or so. Didn't feel like doing stuff friday night, and doesn't feel like doing anything tonight because "it's raining". Well we're not gonna flying kites, dumbass!

ugh, I need a social circle. :(
 
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