I hate mixed signals...

[Yagrash]

Hey guys, just thought I'd share this with you for the hell of it. By the way, I've seen mixed signals before, but this is getting ridiculous.

So, ok. There's this girl, she's probably a 7.5, and cool. I mean, just like one of the dudes. She'll come over, drink like a fish, and call you a ***** if you don't drink that much.

I met her once, and hooked up with her. I set up another date with her later, and we hung out for a while. She had to leave early because she had to be up the next morning.

So a couple weeks go by and I see her again. She tells me, and I quote: "Hey, I'm going to be here all Thanksgiving break, we should, you know, hang out and do other things."

Now I'm thinking that means "let's get drunk and ****."

So I wait 3 days, send her the booty call on Friday. No answer, I leave a 10 second message. Doesn't get returned. Monday rolls around, I call her again. Got no answer, didn't leave a message. Still no word from her.

So now I'm thinking... either she died, completely changed up and went somewhere for Thanksgiving, or lost interest in me.

The only thing I can think of is that she's 24 and I'm 20. The age difference doesn't really bother me, but it might bother her. Aside from that, I don't know what the **** is going on.

Anyway, just thought I'd share that with you guys so you know that if you're getting mixed signals from chicks, at least you're not the only one.

 

[Monkey]

When you hung out did you try to kiss her? because it sounds to me like she just thinks of you as a friend.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Hate to say it but you got your ass put in the friend category. Stop wussing out and kiss.

 

[Big Pappy]

Here's the thing : It's Thursday now. There's still 3 days left of the weekend. Don't ever leave a message; caller Id will let her know you called.

I realize that some folks might not want to make the plans at that instant, 1) you might have a better opportunity 2) you don't necessarily want her to know that you don't have anything going on.

However, there's a reason why everybody goes to the movies after the football games are over - it's two hours less they have to interact with their families. Be concrete the next time the opportunity presents itself. The generic - "I'll call you" may have told her that your interest level wasn't high enough so she wants to build it --- and she has.


When in doubt, do nothing.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Use *67 on that bad boy and then call. It will not show your caller ID or just be Suave and not a little AFC ***** and do something else and not call her for a few days.

 

[Yagrash]

When you hung out did you try to kiss her? because it sounds to me like she just thinks of you as a friend.

Hate to say it but you got your ass put in the friend category. Stop wussing out and kiss.

Guys, the night that she was hanging out with me I was hosting people. It wasn't just her and myself in the room. Believe me, if I had an opportunity to kiss her I would've taken it.

We made out the day we met, for chrissake. I'm not shy, promise.

The generic - "I'll call you" may have told her that your interest level wasn't high enough so she wants to build it --- and she has.

Actually, I think you're right. Either that, or she changed up and actually did go out of town, in which case she'll call me in a day or two. Definitely got my attention, though.

Use *67 on that bad boy and then call. It will not show your caller ID or just be Suave and not a little AFC ***** and do something else and not call her for a few days.

*67ing is gay. Being mysterious is good. Appearing like you're trying to be mysterious... not so good. By the way, I have no intentions of calling her again, at least not until she makes an effort to contact me.

Dude, I have other things going on, too. Believe me. This chick isn't the only thing in my life, I was just telling a story.

 

[xblitz44x]

Thank you for that post but just relax. So she's not answering your calls just yet. I wouldn't worry about it. It sounds like she would still do you if it came down to it. Maybe she's been busy and hasn't had the opportunity to call you yet. Maybe she wants to do you but thinks that, because of the age difference, it wouldn't work out. Who knows, but you'll drive yourself into the ground trying to figure it out. Wait a few more days, give her another call and if she doesn't answer tell her to call you if she's not busy. Then wait. She'll call eventually, and if she doesn't you know the truth. Nothing you did wrong here tho, if she doesn't get with you it's not because she's not attracted to you, it's because there is shyt going on and she's stopping herself; in which case there isn't much you can do.

 

[sql]

i think you need to stop trying to analyze this situation, you didnt do anything out right crazy or smohter her with afc type behavior. just let it go bro.

imho, if she were really interested, she'd have made the time to meet you or return your call. i agree that using th *67 thing wont work, i have people who call me from their number and then blatantly call me on private like 30 seconds after. its so obviouse who it is. maybe not in your situation, but i have never seen the reason to hide who you are when you call. if they pick up, and they know its me, then they wanna talk, otherwise i dont waste my time.

i wouldnt worry too much about the age thing. it only gets in the way if you let it or want it to. pay no mind, and treat her like you would any other girl, she doesnt deserve any special treatment for being older. in her case, it clearly didnt bother her when you hooked up with her. if you play by the rules of attraction, she wont care about any obstacle, she'll figure out a way to jump your bones.

big pappy's right but ill add:

when in doubt do nothing, and stop stressing it