"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chicks put on their b1tch faces and try to stare you down. I've been getting this every once in a while lately (no idea why) but yesterday i had it happen to me twice. I will just notice some chick staring at me suddenly and when i make EC i notice they have this all hostile look on their face.

So yesterday i had something like this and i'm wondering like "wtf?!". So i just stare her down and stick my tongue out... then about 30 minutes later i'm ordering a drink i get the same thing from another chick who is standing right next to me. Now i was getting a bit pissed off (because of some crap a friend pulled earlier) and in my mind i was thinking how great it would be to just punch her in the face... but i decided to just put on a smile and ask her what her problem was instead...

So, you guys ever get stuff like this and how do you handle it?!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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umm, ignore it?

Smiles come a lot more frequently - or they just look away.

This isn't heaven. Some people aren't nice.
 
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I'd laugh at her. Then it would really make her scoul
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Last night I actually gave that look out at girls that were staring too hard at me,pulling my hand trynna get me to dance when I was walking across the club.

lol,I understand why they do it.I'm a guy and you wouldn't think it'd bother me but it does,even if the girl is attractive.Like come talk to me don't just stare at me and break eye contact whenever I turn your way like a ****ing retard.

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B-Real said:
I'd laugh at her. Then it would really make her scoul
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I like this one... i'm gonna save it for next time :trouble:
 
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Did she say what her problem was ?
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Nope she didn't say a damn word. It was kind of a one way conversation ;-)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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