"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Socialreject

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Chicks put on their b1tch faces and try to stare you down. I've been getting this every once in a while lately (no idea why) but yesterday i had it happen to me twice. I will just notice some chick staring at me suddenly and when i make EC i notice they have this all hostile look on their face.

So yesterday i had something like this and i'm wondering like "wtf?!". So i just stare her down and stick my tongue out... then about 30 minutes later i'm ordering a drink i get the same thing from another chick who is standing right next to me. Now i was getting a bit pissed off (because of some crap a friend pulled earlier) and in my mind i was thinking how great it would be to just punch her in the face... but i decided to just put on a smile and ask her what her problem was instead...

So, you guys ever get stuff like this and how do you handle it?!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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umm, ignore it?

Smiles come a lot more frequently - or they just look away.

This isn't heaven. Some people aren't nice.
 

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I'd laugh at her. Then it would really make her scoul
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tha Realnezz

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Last night I actually gave that look out at girls that were staring too hard at me,pulling my hand trynna get me to dance when I was walking across the club.

lol,I understand why they do it.I'm a guy and you wouldn't think it'd bother me but it does,even if the girl is attractive.Like come talk to me don't just stare at me and break eye contact whenever I turn your way like a ****ing retard.

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B-Real said:
I'd laugh at her. Then it would really make her scoul
I like this one... i'm gonna save it for next time :trouble:
 

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Bloke said:
Did she say what her problem was ?
Nope she didn't say a damn word. It was kind of a one way conversation ;-)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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