I hate it when girls do this.

[froznie]

So, I've been dating a girl for a while now We live in different towns but it's just like 5 miles away.

Until now, she'd usually come to my place after work, around 6-7 PM, and we'd spend the evening together and watch a movie, and then she'd either go back home or spend the night (if there was no work the next morning).

Anyway, for me it was perfect.

But eventually, she started leaving a few things behind. This escalated to just one drawer reserved for her underwear and stuff. Then, it's a closet where she leaves her summer clothes in the winter, etc.

Little by little, step by step. She ended up spending more and more time at my place. At first she never slept more than one night at a time, and eventually it became two, and three.

Then she rearranged stuff in the kitchen. Then we redecorated the living room.

And then one day I was cooking and I instinctively turn to her to ask her where the oil is.

Yep. It's my house, and I just found out that I need to ask her where the oil is.

How can I have been so blind? I've been ****ing invaded and I was too dumb (and horny) to see it happen.

 

[skinnyguy]

The fact that you give a fvck about her puts you in a weak position.

Might wanna kick her out so that you can bang other broads. Sounds like she is turning into a wife.

 

[Love<3]

How can I have been so blind? I've been ****ing invaded and I was too dumb (and horny) to see it happen.

Maybe if you ignored your penis in the first place, the girl wouldn't mess up your house

 

[salinechow]

Sounds like he is turning into the wife.

 

[BrainDamage92]

This is why you need a smart mother.

Me and the ex moved in at my folk's place at some point, then moved out and went to another city, my mother threw all the **** she left behind (on the instant knowing how she is )

Shes the kinda mother that told me: "Son, be very carefull, girls tend to impregnate themselves, dont look away or she might put it inside". Thanks ma.



Thing is you done ****ed up. Either its time for a serious talk and a breakup, seperation, drama, or you let her be your wifey, depending on what you want, but pseudo-marriages are something that... Doesnt work. But if youre hooked and weak youre gonna do it anyway.

But you done ****ed up now. Keep me posted Im interested at whatsup.

 

[mangotot]

Is this not how relationships develop into something concrete and long term? Personally I think it would have been better if you were at her place and you slowly buy surely moved in there. Not the other way round.

 

[Bingo-Player]

In my opinion the fact youve felt strongly enough to post about this on an internet forum would be an indicator that this woman isn’t suitable long term / wife material

Problem you have now is its going to be very difficult to “roll back the clock” with her , she wont want to go back to staying over 1 day a week

you need to do some thinking asap bro

 

[El Payaso]

That's how the invasion begins.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Sounds like he is turning into the wife.

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