"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I hate Illegal immigration !

Bible_Belt

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Israel has compulsory military service for every citizen, suicide bombers, and support from the US. India has no compulsory military, but they have very cheap labor to work as border guards.

Technically, yes, Fortress America is fiscally possible. The cost would probably be a lot more than Iraq. But if the illegals leave, then the price of everything starts to go up. We would start to notice how much our economy owes to the people who work the lousy jobs. The real reason that those people are allowed to stay is that they are good for the bottom line profits of business.

Legal immigration is a fiscal net positive in the US. The immigrants pay more in taxes than they take out in services. It's better to let the illegals join the system and start paying taxes.

And the reason that we give everyone basic health care regardless of immigration status is that cheap preventative care prevents costly outbreaks of communicable disease that get spread around, infecting citizens as well.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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http://www.economist.com/displaystory.cfm?story_id=289789
A study by Ronald Lee at the University of California at Berkeley calculated that taxpayers make a cumulative profit of $80,000 from each new legal immigrant over his lifetime. But this number has to be treated with caution: it includes the taxes the immigrant’s children pay, and most of the benefits come in the later years. On average, most newcomers are a fiscal burden for their first 22 years.

All these numbers, it should be said, rely on complicated guesstimates that can easily change with different assumptions, and they are bedevilled by the problems of counting illegal immigrants. Broadly speaking, most of the numbers suggest that in the long term America gains from immigration—but that the immigrants gain even more.


The other link you posted talks about farm labor, but immigrants work lousy jobs in other industries as well. The produce study is confined to produce workers getting a raise. But immigrants also drive and unload trucks, work construction, wait tables, and clean. The cumulative impact of all those little people is very big.

From the very conservative Heritage Foundation:
http://www.heritage.org/Research/Immigration/bg1913.cfm
Typical illegal aliens come to America primarily for better jobs and in the process add value to the U.S. economy. However, they also take away value by weakening the legal and national security envi­ronment. When three out of every 100 people in America are undocumented (or, rather, docu­mented with forged and faked papers), there is a profound security problem. Even though they pose no direct security threat, the presence of millions of undocumented migrants distorts the law, distracts resources, and effectively creates a cover for terror­ists and criminals.

In other words, the real problem presented by illegal immigration is security, not the supposed threat to the economy. Indeed, efforts to curtail the economic influx of migrants actually worsen the security dilemma by driving many migrant workers underground, thereby encouraging the culture of illegality. A non-citizen guest worker program is an essential component of securing the border, but only if it is the right program.

It is important to craft a guest worker program intelligently. While there are numerous issues involved in such a program, many of which are beyond the scope of this paper, the evidence indi­cates that worker migration is a net plus economi­cally
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I cant believe I'm hearing this. You guys are pathetic! Haters....i love freaking immegrants without them the US wouldnt be filled with hot latinas and asian chicks. You guys are acting like pussies. you guys cant handle alittle competition and you want everything easy for you. Suck IT UP! STop *****ing and complainin. Most of my friends are immigrants thats why i hang out with them. so the complains stop NOW
 

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Potbelly said:
ok how about this. I dont' give a shiet about chief big ****** stick because he could beat me with his hands. The thing is, we had guns and creamed them. USA! USA! that's right. they weren't good enough to develop weapons like guns so we shot them up. simple as that. natural selection at it's finest.
You would have fit well in the National Socialist movement. Are you into eugenics?

You should be the LAST person to talk about natural selection. Its obvious from your posts you come from the shallow end of the gene pool, retard.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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picard said:
did you watch the news? the latinos protesters sang US national anthem in spanish. This must be insult to the Americans. I would feel insult too if latinos can't sing Canadian national anthem. Why can't they learn english? All other ethnic groups are able to adapt to american culture by learning english. English is the language of business around the world. If they can't learn english then they are dam too stupid. They actually have the temerity to wave mexican flag. WTF ?? This is suppose to be USA.
I hear what you are saying and I agree that they should learn English along with becomming legal citizens. However here's a translation of their rendition of our anthem. I don't understand all the uproar about it.


It's sunrise. Do you see by the light of the dawn
What we proudly hailed last nightfall?
Its stars, its stripes
yesterday streamed
above fierce combat
a symbol of victory
the glory of battle, the march toward liberty.
Throughout the night, they proclaimed: "We will defend it!"

Chorus
Tell me! Does its starry beauty still wave
above the land of the free,
the sacred flag?

Its stars, its stripes,
Liberty, we are the same.
We are brothers in our anthem.
In fierce combat, a symbol of victory
the glory of battle,
(My people fight on)
the march toward liberty.
(The time has come to break the chains.)
Throughout the night they proclaimed: "We will defend it!"
Tell me! Does its starry beauty still wave
above the land of the free,
the sacred flag?
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??? It seems fine. People have to understand the literal translation obviously is not going to be the same, and it had to be changed a bit for rhythm purposes because obviously an exact translation won't rhyme in Spanish.

It doesn't sound THAT different though. Why so upset I wonder... Quien sabe?
 

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manbearpig said:
??? It seems fine. People have to understand the literal translation obviously is not going to be the same, and it had to be changed a bit for rhythm purposes because obviously an exact translation won't rhyme in Spanish.

It doesn't sound THAT different though. Why so upset I wonder... Quien sabe?
Maybe the Mexican anthem should be sung in French.
 

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US anthem is suppose to be sung in English. English is the primary language in the US. I wouldn't want to change the French anthem to English either. I don't think the French would appreciate Americans sing their anthem in different language.
 

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This is not an American problem. The entire 3rd World is moving into the 1st World and demanding their "rights"!
Remember the riots in Paris a couple of weeks ago? And it's not just there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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picard said:
US anthem is suppose to be sung in English. English is the primary language in the US. I wouldn't want to change the French anthem to English either. I don't think the French would appreciate Americans sing their anthem in different language.
But it wasn't our national anthem. They sung a rendition of it basically saying they want to be a part of America. Yeah, they should become citizens but my gosh, they're being condemned for singing. It's not even a bad song. :rolleyes:
 

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The media fails to report what happens to all those US flags you see the Illegals waving at their marches.

Many of those flags end up being discarded afterwards.

:mad:
 

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I am pro-immigration. It is what made this Country great.
But I am against ILLEGAL immigration.

That's my point.
 
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