"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I hate her

soldier

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She's falling in love with me, and I know it and she knows that I know it. And she fights me for every concession, every compliance, EVERYTHING is a f-ing struggle, a battle, a knock it out drag it out slug it out. Pulling teeth all the way up. It's like she pretends to get mad and I pretend to get offended.
I need to knock this ***** down a rung, maybe even 2 or 3. This is the thing about these 9s/10s, it ain't easy if you are a 6. Everything is a test and I'm constantly being evaluated. High alert, better not get drunk like I did tonight and let my defenses down. Then it's all the way to the mat.
Do I have it in me? Because you better have the goods with this one, or you will join the other dead bodies by the rail. Fakes need not apply, she is putting the heat on me. I can see the wheels turning from across the bar.

Problem city: I'm actually falling for this one, chic style. I'm in so far over my head, boyz. This ain't going to end well, I see the writing on the wall. Better enjoy it while it lasts, it never does.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Got no straight advice for you, but I know the situation. Just hang on and keep in mind that this will be a learning experience. It is only ONE in a long row of experiences, and even if you "fail", you will have gained experience points and progressed in the bigger perspective of it all.
 

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Die Hard said:
Got no straight advice for you, but I know the situation. Just hang on and keep in mind that this will be a learning experience. It is only ONE in a long row of experiences, and even if you "fail", you will have gained experience points and progressed in the bigger perspective of it all.

Thanks, man. This one has huge upside, but huge downside. Def a great learning experience. You used to be a friend, so that's one thing. I'm officially out of the friend zone. Gonna write a post about it and everything.
 
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