I hate Day Game

[Cash37]

Anyone else feel this way at the beginning of a week? In the clubs everything happens so fast, and you get far clearer IOIs. Day game takes forever in my opinion and Id rather bump into a woman I want to talk to in a club than in the day.

Opinions?

 

[Ratisson]

day game is waaaaaaay harder than night game.

I think that the day game bring out the true DJ/pua/player in a person. If you have solid day game then you are the man. Night game sucks man, there are no quality girls and they are all druunk so they wont remember you.

work on day game, its way better, and it tests ur true skills

 

[Microphone Fiend]

day game is easier, no competition. Only thing is you don't have liquid courage, but if you get your day game right, then you dont ever need liquid courage

 

[j0n024]

Yes I agree with both people above me! I love day game because it's so much harder then night game, I mean I do some night game but not as much as day game. I love it just going up to a girl and start chatting her up and for me instead of just going for the number I go for the insta-date where she walks with me or we sit down and talk for a while. You should try day game instead of relying on liquor to help you get girls, but that is just my opinion.

 

[Effington]

The one thing I don't understand about day game is the time constraint. I never have 15 minutes to chill and talk to a random person during the day, I'm either at work, going to/from work, or at lunch, which I may have like 2 minutes max, but I still want to utilize it by eating and transit to/from restaurants.

I can see at the park or walking a dog or something on a Saturday afternoon, but I'd treat it like a standard approach at a bar, except bail earlier. Chat for a few minutes, build interest, get her number and then say I had to be somewhere.

 

[marinetti]

i find day game worth practicing because if I see a woman that I consider perfect - someone who looks like she could be my dream woman - during the day, I want to have AAA game ready to go.

I think day game takes just as much practice as night game. The problem is bars are full of hot women, whereas parks maybe have one a day.

Don't worry about leaving during day game. If they aren't enjoying the company, then let them make an excuse to leave. Insta-dates are great too, make sure you know where a Starbucks is.

Finally, I like intelligent, well-read women, and the best place to find them are in bookstores. So day game for me is necessary.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Night Game is harder than day game.

Night game is so much stuff going on and flake rate can get high if you don't play it solid.

Day Game, its just harder to hook, but once your in, your in and the #s is usually solid. The one thing though...people make Day Game seem harder because they don't approach, because they don't want people watching them approach. They don't want to feel the social pressure.

Are you willing to approach that chick in a quiet and crowded train station? Most people can't take that amount of social pressure of everyone hearing them and watching him talking to a chick.

Overall once you get past the whole fact of people watching you approach and just not caring what anyone thinks of you, then day game becomes super easy.

 

[j0n024]

Hmm true Snow I can see how some people might get a little uneasy from everyone watching, but hey they might think you have gut's going up to a girl like that and just chatting her up! I remember this past Saturday I talked to this girl I liked back then and a women was watching me the whole time so I end the convo and walk over to another lady which was selling jewelry (helped me pick out Bday present for mommy ) and told the lady thanks and whatnot the other lady that watched me the whole time came over and I asked her flat out "Sooo what did you think, you think I did good?" She didnt understand for a while so I pointed behind me and she started laughing and saying ya you did good and gave me pointers which I used on her and she started laughing some more. But back on topic Night game is for me a Backup plan I think , I mean your going to meet your LTR at a club where she is drunk off her ass and grinding on other guys? I dont think so day game is where you actually see the women and what she really is, for me that is much better then seeing her as stated above which is usually DRUNK. But hey do whatever if your into those type of girls be my guest.

 

[ngaplz]

It's actually the opposite for me.

I absolutely suck at night game.

During the day however, I like meeting girls at the grocery store or at target. 24 is right though, I find it more difficult to approach when other people are around because of the fear that other people might see you fail.

 

[Sexual]

Some food for thought - the moral DJ?

I'm starting a new thread with Snow Plowman and Microphone fiend's replies to see what intuitive thoughts this board is capable of (not much on my part, I'm sure).