"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"I hate boys who just want ass"

ILikeGirls<3

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She says this. How do I convey interest without "just wanting ass"? C+F doesn't work, she sees through it easily. She has the "BS detector", so its hard to lie about anything. A guy was gaming her and she said "so you want my number?" and hes like "oh don't flatter yourself", and she just said "bull****." He was owned because she just went over to someone else, and who can argue with freeze-out? I got her number later when I drove her home, small IOI there, but I asked her to "grind" rather than "dance" back at the party so I creeped her out and I may be in the "he wants ass" category now.

But I can't go all AFC now either.

On the other hand, she is a girl so I am sure one some level she wants to feel sexually attractive to guys.

Anyone else ever get this line from a girl?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChrizZ

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ILikeGirls<3 said:
She says this. How do I convey interest without "just wanting ass"? C+F doesn't work, she sees through it easily. She has the "BS detector", so its hard to lie about anything. A guy was gaming her and she said "so you want my number?" and hes like "oh don't flatter yourself", and she just said "bull****." He was owned because she just went over to someone else, and who can argue with freeze-out? I got her number later when I drove her home, small IOI there, but I asked her to "grind" rather than "dance" back at the party so I creeped her out and I may be in the "he wants ass" category now.

But I can't go all AFC now either.

On the other hand, she is a girl so I am sure one some level she wants to feel sexually attractive to guys.

Anyone else ever get this line from a girl?
hiding your interest is AFC. Never be afraid to be a man.

"Oh, You just want some a$$!"

... you: "I'll do you in every hole you have."

Women want strong men that can lead, not chumps that pu$$yfoot around.

That's what I realized...
 

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Looks like you got a tough one there, seems like a real challenge. My friend was in your position, and then he worked his way up to the point where they were in bed together, but while they were both naked in the bed she asked if they were going to do it and he was like "Maybe later, I wanna get to know you a little bit more because I respect you," and she loved him after that.

I hope she doesn't know about push-pull too lol. If not then that might be the way to go.
 

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ChrizZ said:
"Oh, You just want some a$$!"

... you: "I'll do you in every hole you have."

Women want strong men that can lead, not chumps that pu$$yfoot around.

That's what I realized...
How many girls have you gotten? Really?

While I can agree that women prefer a man who has the wherewithal to go for it, talking to woman as you suggest, and especially one that is offering up a great deal of resistance, will do you more harm, in her eyes, than good.

Have you ever tried charming a girl?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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