"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I hate boys who just want ass"

ILikeGirls<3

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She says this. How do I convey interest without "just wanting ass"? C+F doesn't work, she sees through it easily. She has the "BS detector", so its hard to lie about anything. A guy was gaming her and she said "so you want my number?" and hes like "oh don't flatter yourself", and she just said "bull****." He was owned because she just went over to someone else, and who can argue with freeze-out? I got her number later when I drove her home, small IOI there, but I asked her to "grind" rather than "dance" back at the party so I creeped her out and I may be in the "he wants ass" category now.

But I can't go all AFC now either.

On the other hand, she is a girl so I am sure one some level she wants to feel sexually attractive to guys.

Anyone else ever get this line from a girl?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ChrizZ

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ILikeGirls<3 said:
She says this. How do I convey interest without "just wanting ass"? C+F doesn't work, she sees through it easily. She has the "BS detector", so its hard to lie about anything. A guy was gaming her and she said "so you want my number?" and hes like "oh don't flatter yourself", and she just said "bull****." He was owned because she just went over to someone else, and who can argue with freeze-out? I got her number later when I drove her home, small IOI there, but I asked her to "grind" rather than "dance" back at the party so I creeped her out and I may be in the "he wants ass" category now.

But I can't go all AFC now either.

On the other hand, she is a girl so I am sure one some level she wants to feel sexually attractive to guys.

Anyone else ever get this line from a girl?
hiding your interest is AFC. Never be afraid to be a man.

"Oh, You just want some a$$!"

... you: "I'll do you in every hole you have."

Women want strong men that can lead, not chumps that pu$$yfoot around.

That's what I realized...
 

War Against Betaism

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Looks like you got a tough one there, seems like a real challenge. My friend was in your position, and then he worked his way up to the point where they were in bed together, but while they were both naked in the bed she asked if they were going to do it and he was like "Maybe later, I wanna get to know you a little bit more because I respect you," and she loved him after that.

I hope she doesn't know about push-pull too lol. If not then that might be the way to go.
 

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ChrizZ said:
"Oh, You just want some a$$!"

... you: "I'll do you in every hole you have."

Women want strong men that can lead, not chumps that pu$$yfoot around.

That's what I realized...
How many girls have you gotten? Really?

While I can agree that women prefer a man who has the wherewithal to go for it, talking to woman as you suggest, and especially one that is offering up a great deal of resistance, will do you more harm, in her eyes, than good.

Have you ever tried charming a girl?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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