"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I had to ask my wingman what just happened...

MillionBillionaire

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There I was at the club I am always at day after a sh1tty night out after a terribul week.. I knew I was due for a good night out.

There I was with my wingman just talking outside a tent.. I had already got my first blow out rejection out the way earlier and I was glad I got that out the way because the rest of the night was epic.

I am standing outside with my wingman then all of a sudden I notice a girl walk within our priximity.. I miss the chance to claw her. I stop talking to my wingman and say.. "there she was, our chance to claw her.. she wanted an approach." I ask him if he seen where she went and we scan the area to find the girl that just walked by. I see her sitting by the curb and I say... "There she is.. she is just sitting there. I am going to go talk to her... ready?... 3.2.1. Go...." I literally say this and I walk strait to her.. moving people aside as I b line up to her and say "Hi.. how are you? I saw you walking by and I had to say hi... what are you doing here... who are you with..?" She makes up a story about how she was supposed to meet up with her sister here but she ditched her and now she is not comming.

She is really shy but she tells me about how she lives to dance. At first I thought the set was going to go no where but all of a sudden she woukd ask questions like "Do you like going to the zoo?" Literally we talked about the zoo.. and raves.. and bands. My wingman comes in and does a great job winging... making me look good and adding value. I get her number and before she leaves she says for me to text her.. it was nice to meet me and my wingman.

Next thing I know I am dancing with another girl on the dance floor.
This is the first time a girl pushed me upon another girl and we all just got along like magic. I got her number and a tentative.. I'm going to ask you out for the 4th of july.. but you gotta wait for it.


I had to ask my wingman what just happened because I was having a sh1tty week.. more like h3ll. But I knew I was just going through a string if bad luck and like bam! A great night.. 2 hot leads...

I think I made a total of 5 cold approaches tonight.. but 2 of them were just amazing fun.

Tonight is supposed to be even better!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When it rains.. it pours... then all a sudden BAM! Things are awesome again. The second girl said she is starting her new job on Monday but she is willing to call in on the Fourth of July if she finds something to do... she doesn't have plans yet. I could have gotten the day 2 right there but for some reason I was thinking I should show non neediness by making her wait.

This came literally right after my first amazing set that was just as good...

I'll admit.. I love the midwest suburban girls.. I'll take them over city girls any day. Low matience and that lovely curvy bubbly sassy!... and I love the way they smell.
 
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