"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I had enough...

magui86770

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Pardon my ranting, but I need to vent. Found out the oneitis I had, who I haven't spoke to in 6 months, is chasing a 23 year old on her softball team. Oh, she's 37. The female co-worker I've been ignoring since she blew me off is up my nuts now, but I know its nothing more than just attention since her ex-boyfriend flew her to California and paid for her airfare/hotel last month.

It shouldn't bother me. I seen behind the red curtain. But, it does. It just means I have not fully swallow the red pill yet. I think I need to hit the man cave for a few months and come back out kicking ass.

Oh, I am grateful for everyone on this forum and the other websites out there. If it wasn't for this, I probably would have cough up the pill.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Uncharted

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We get it.

Now take that energy and use it to go approach other girls, meet new people, get a hobby, work out, make your life better.
 
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