"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I Had an epiphany about Approaching Women

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When I first got into cold approach and was annoyed at how unfriendly everyone was, I had the realisation that I was too! It happened when i was on my lunch break sitting in the park on one of the tables. Some foreign dude who was travelling (french i think?) asked if he could sit with me. I was like 'Dude, there's like 5 other tables' and was a bit rude. I then realised that I was doing what all the people i'd been angry at were doing. So I called him over and had a stilted chat and eventually left.

I'm chatting to my mates and some random comes over and seems to want to get involved, and we all just slowly turn our backs to him and fade him out. Even if the dude is completely normal and stuff. It wakes you up though as to what happens on so many cold approaches. It's just how we are. I've always said for my cold approach, i'm looking for unicorns. A unicorn being not only a young, hot girl who is somewhat traditional but also a girl who is unusually socialble with strangers! Luckily i've found a decent girl a few weeks ago.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One of the biggest fatal flaws of cold approach and particularly the miniscule amount of men that actually approach, they are typically purple pill. The game and Mystery is a classic example. I'd argue it's better than the delusional "I'm unplugged" got everything figured out, I red pill everyone, in spectators mode of watch boomer pods, and don't get girls. BTW insert some dorks theory who is not pulling girls.

I am not following. Are you saying a random guy tries weasel in on your sets or was he just being chill. A freeze out simply blows these guys out. I'm cool if they are natural and value adding versus a weasel trying to male feminist their way into my set.

Going back to the purple pill predisposition of most fellas doing cold approach, it's problematic because it lends to getting duped most often than not. These girls near 30 and suddenly on comes the good girl act. It's all CAP. It's to rope in captain cuckold. The unicorn isn't real. These girls are throwing around the kitty and checking out as the milk goes bad.

The game is catch and release. If lightning strikes, run with it but 99% it's just another brick in the wall. Modern women aren't the unicorn you seek. More importantly, until icyyyy af, the probability of acquiring anything like is mad low.
 
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