"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I had a pretty good day today.

coolf1r3

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Sorry if this sounds like a brag post but it's one of the best nights I've had in a long time:


- But yeah, today, I woke up around 10:00 and did some housework.
- Went out to get some new clothes around 12:00. I got 2 new button-down shirts, a pair of jeans, track pants, and a hoodie.
- Came back home around 4:00 and just messed around until 6:30
- At 6:30, I got dressed in my new blue and white button-down, jeans, and new sneakers because my friends and I wanted to go to the club (Clubs down here have under-21 nights sometimes.)
- Left around 7:00, picked up a friend, drank some beer at his house, and got to the club circa 8:30.

Now for the good stuff:

- We walked into the club and sat around for 10 minutes or so, just waiting for the club to start getting busy. When it gets busy, I jump up and head out to the dance floor. At first, I was nervous about just walking up to a girl and dancing with her but after a little encouragement from a friend I saw at the club, I started dancing with this cute, but slightly chubby girl. We were dancing for a couple songs and I decided to talk to her. I asked her name, what school she goes to, what grade she's in, etc. After dancing for a little bit more, I told her to give me her hand and twirled her around so that she was dancing facing me. She seemed impressed and we continued to dance. After my legs damn near gave out from how low we were going, I politely ejected and told her I'd be back. I rested for a few minutes and grabbed a water. After that, I got back on the dance floor and tried to dance with this smokin' hot girl who was dancing with a group of her friends but when I got on her, she rejected me by stepping forward. Getting rejected really fvcking bites but I guess I can't take it personally. :cuss: A few dances later, I see Hannah again so I go and dance with her. After a little bit, she had to leave and I asked for her number and got it.:up: Cha ching! I then went to search for other girls to dance with. I saw a very cute brunette dancing with her friends. I start dancing with her for a song or two and then this guy shoves me off of her and takes my spot. I got mad but there was no point in starting a fight at the club so I let it slide. A few rejections and a few dances later, I get to dancing with this hot brunette and a blonde started dancing in front of the girl I was dancing with. A guy and a girl get on the other side and this guy and I are grinding on this train of girls. After the train broke up, the guy and I shook hands and grinned and we were all like :cool:. So a few dances later, I go back to my couch where my friend is talking to this girl that he's been liking for the past week or so. I didn't see this friend dancing with anyone because he just wouldn't fvcking approach! It upset me to see him walking around on the floor, bobbing his head to the beat, not dancing with anyone. More so because he is supposedly "really good with girls.":rolleyes: So anyway, I'm going to sit down and he pushes me down, acting like a total jackass. I think that he was just trying to act tough in front of the girl and that kind of bull. I told him to cut the macho bull**** out and he did, thankfully. So around 11:30, the club is starting to die and many people are leaving. So I ask what time we're going to bounce out and go for one last dance. I danced with this very, very pretty brunette and then had to leave. I really wanted to get more phone numbers but I was totally lost on how to do it. Meh. I guess we all gotta start somewhere, right?:p

What do you guys think I could have done better? I'm open to any and all suggestions!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mpimpin

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wow the timing of things is a lot different where your from. Clubs don't even open around here till ten and don't slow down till at least 2 around here. The teen clubs might slow down around midnight though, but they open around 9-10 too
 
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