"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I guess ill shake it off

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I just dont get it

Me and this girl have just recently been talking alot after we hung out at the beach last week. We flirted and it was obvious that there was an attraction there. After I went home we talked on the phone every night for 30min to an hour the next few days,and she really opened up and we talked about everything, including hooking up and how we should. I made plans to come down the beach again to see her. That night, she pays some attention to me but then flirts with my friend who came down with me. She was giving him alot of kino and being very flirty with him. This was making me a little upset, and I later found out that they hooked up that night. Why do girls do this

Why does **** like this happen? I guess ill shake it off... I know there are many other oppourtunities but I hate when stuff like this happens even though you play it so well. Ill never have those 4 hours of me pretending to listen to all her **** back, and I didnt even get any.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the better question.

Why did you bring your friend to the beach when you just wanted to hook up with this chick?
 
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Originally posted by DJDanny
the better question.

Why did you bring your friend to the beach when you just wanted to hook up with this chick?
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agreed...But I think you should NOT waste anytime with this girl
brad67,pathetic games and she flirted with the dude right in front of you?, why would you want something like that...I know it's not hard but forget about her, she is obviously into games and doesn't sound worth thinking about if you ask me.
 
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It wasnt just us 3 at the beach, it was like 8 people. I came down with some guys and she came down with some other girls. And it was gay how she flirted with the other guy right in front of me... she definitely knew I was into her, and even if she wasnt into me, it still sort of pissed me off how she flirted with him right in front of me.

I will forget about her, we are going to a concert in a few days though and I still owe her money for my ticket... should I pay her?
 
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give the ticket back to her or tell her to go with someone else. or both.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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