I guess I was the rebound? Now I want to bang her lol..suggestions?

[seabumma]

So I guess I was the rebound guy, at least I think so. I assume she put me in the position unintentionally, but long story short she is now dating her ex. Turns out she cheated on him 5 months ago (i recently found out). After she cheated, she ended up breaking up with him, and dated another guy (not the one she cheated with), prior to meeting me. The girl hardly has friends at her college, and according to her, her ex asked her to date him or else he felt they should not spend any more time together (bull****).

Well obviously I am irritated with the whole situation (a little heart broken, yes i will admit), especially since I ONLY made it to second base with her. We did not go all the way. Now for some reason, I REALLY want to go all the way. I wish I would have banged her lol..

So..for the past couple weeks I've held back on all contact. She sent me a text after a week of no contact, telling me about her weekend with her parents. She doesn't bother calling anymore and I have resisted the urge to call as well.

I want to hangout with this chick and have one thing lead to another till we end up in bed lol.. Any suggestion as to how I should approach this situation? I know it would mean her cheating again on her boyfriend, but I really do not care. I'd dump her right after.

I was thinking of asking her to join me for dinner, and take things from there. Since contact between us is so limited right now, and I do not think she will be calling for quite some time, should I give her a ring? Text her and tell her to call me?

Should I play the friends card for a little bit?

 

[sodbuster]

Do nothing.Find another one. All you can think about is this chick now how will you act after you get lucky? Why do you think you can tap it now? You couldn't tap it when you were dating.

 

[DJDamage]

I ONLY made it to second base with her.

Let me guess, you tried to escalate but each time you wanted to go farther she brushed you off?! well then you played your rebound role to a tee.

She played you like she wanted you to be played but instead of you deciding not to put up with her supposed anti-slvt defence and going out with girls whom you would have gone all the way with, you stucked around and jumped through her hollahoops until she got bored of you.

You would have a better luck of fvcking women you never met before then trying to hit her up again.

 

[A-hole-seducer]

dear loser,

first off, your freakin post is way too long. Half of it was just chatter.

becuase I feel sorry for you, I'll give you a word of advice. You can thank me later ... it's pure gold, as is all my advice is.

I'll make it short cuase quite honestly, I don't freakin feel like spending too much time on you.

This girl your dealing with is obviuosly a slut. Please, you know she is. I dont care if you dont think so, from your boring story, I know she's one. I say you give the slut what she deserves. One night with you should be punishment enough.

But seriously, tell her you want to bang her, but communicate it with body language. And be sure she's attracted to you first. She'll sleep with you if she's attracted.

After you sleep with her, leave the girl wanting more. Don't call her again. She'll call you, if you bang that to the max.

okay sissy,

that's all you get. Consider yourself EXTREMELY lucky.

Got a chick to meet.

later loser.

 

[SharinganUser]

This girl is a waste of time. Move on to someone else.

 

[The Bat]

Um...is this the same girl that lives TWO STATES away from you? I.E. This girl: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153606

How the hell do you plan on accomplishing this feat?

For your sake, forget this girl, and remember what I told you in the other thread:

You are in an emotional rut because you limited yourself to the first girl that was receptive and warm to you. You shut off all doors with having any kind of relationship with other women who are around you and who you see everyday on campus.

Cut ALL contact with her. This means delete her from your phone, delete ALL of the texts from her, delete all of her voicemails, delete and BLOCK all her e-mails, delete that internet profile, and finally remove EVERYTHING that reminds you of her. Yes, even the plane tickets. Get RID of those stubs and receipts from all the dinners you went out to. REMOVE HER COMPLETELY OUT OF YOUR LIFE AND YOUR MIND. Do it NOW! Like a band-aid, just GRIP IT AND RIP IT! Burn that $hit to the ground and dance around it Indian style.

Stop wasting your time, money, energy, and life on this broad.

Date other girls.

 

[jdon23]

You have SEVERE oneitis for this girl. The Bat gave you great advice. Listen to him!

You need to CUT CONTACT COMPLETELY!!!!! Dont expect a txt, a call, or anything from this person. She doesn't mean anything to you anymore.

DELETE FROM PHONE, AIM, MSN, ETC.. DELETE ANYTHING THAT REMINDS YOU OF HER!!

There is no chance of you being together.. "banging her".. or even BEING FRIENDS.

Forget this chick even existed.


You're desperate mind is clinging to something that is so irrational and if you were in a clear mind state you would realize this.


One day you will wake up and say "im done thinking like this!!!" "shes only holding BACK my growth.. not furthering it!!"..