"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

I guess I struck out today

dmvmang

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2012
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
Today didn't go as I expected. Long story short. Got a girl's number who liked me Sunday. Monday worked all day until 10 pm training clients. Got home at 10 pm. Sent her a text, and we went back and forth.

Went to work today. She was very distant from the staff at work and me. Sat at the fitness desk and I waved and pulled my hand to say come over here. She said "WHAT". I mean in that mean tough way. She snapped at me. I was surprised. I did nothing to her at all. I said "what is going on? Everything good". She said she had a lot on her mind and that she was thinking about her finances. She's a junior in college. My thoughts is she is having money issues. I said I'll take you out to eat. She got off at 12 and me 1 pm. She said she had to go home and then she said "what time do you get off". I'm starting to realize since I'm 30 (damn it) and she is 23 the difference in age maturity. Either or I've decided just to back off totally. I thought it would be best to just be cool with her in the work place for now and look elsewhere. Opinions? Thx
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Zarky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2010
Messages
3,213
Reaction score
89
Location
SoCal
Yeah, don't try to f*ck your co-workers

Other than that you come as off as really AFC, specifically:

I waved and pulled my hand to say come over here. She said "WHAT". I mean in that mean tough way.
I said "what is going on? Everything good".
I said I'll take you out to eat.
All really weak.
 

Tomthebomb

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2013
Messages
39
Reaction score
3
If a girl is a ***** and says "WHAT" in that mean tough way and you say "what is going on? Everything good" then you are acting like a complete *****.

Please, grow some balls. NEVER let somebody, especially a women disrespect you.
 

dmvmang

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2012
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
Thanks, I was actually about to raise my voice and say "what are u snapping for", but I caught myself. I have a really bad temper really bad, but have worked hard to keep it in check. I deleted her number and will just leave her alone. Thanks for the advice.
 
Top