"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I guess eventually you just have to break down and play their game

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Nygard

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Yep Drak, it's a wrong attitude, in fact, it might be one of the main reasons my game never works. But in my case, it's been impossible to get rid off. I just cant wake up one morning and decide that it's false. It's like decieving yourself. I dont know.
And now imagine having a friend that brags about his almighty game 24/7 >.<
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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abcd_z

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Many people find that "one special girl" and settle down with her. No problems so far. But then, they assume that since they've settled down, they can drop all the attitudes and habits that the woman was attracted to in the first place. Take a look at yourself and how you acted around her. I'd be willing to bet that you changed your behaviors once you settled down with her. And that change affected her level of attraction for you.

Make no mistake, the game is never-ending. Even within a relationship, you need to keep displaying attractive behaviors and avoiding the unattractive ones, or things will end up exactly like you've outlined for us here.

P.S.
About your attitude regarding the UG:
It didn't work with her. Who cares, she's a UG! Not only are you now aware of the faulty beliefs that have caused problems for you before, you're free to go out and attract other, more attractive women!

Sounds like a win-win situation to me.
 
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DonGorgon

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This is very simple... She is young and having fun... you were fun now its the next dudes turn...

OK so you want it to last longer than she does. then you need to make her feel that she only needs and wants you! Thats gonna require more and more work the longer it lasts cause you are "fighting fate". So you need to has as many women as you can so you dont have to be bound be one that no longer wants you.
 
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