That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
True, Its just so fvcking ridiculous what grown Men are doing today. Walking on the floor on a leash held by a Woman. Just looking at that makes me want to take a big dose of testosterone.TheException said:
lol which is why I don't have any sympathy for women who are victims of rape or domestic violenceTheException said:
Explain how its mens fault if the have been brainwashed by the media, and public schools to believe in the blue pill?TheException said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No one is forcing men to believe the sh1t they see on TV, in books, movies, etc. We are all granted with the power of free thought and to blame our failures on "brainwashing" is an excuse. Period.noobolgy said:
Let me clarify, the brainwashing happens when the males are children. They are brought up believing blue pill nonsense.TheException said:
I get your point and dont entirely disagree with it....but think about it this way.noobolgy said:
This is what I have a real problem with.....what we are discussing above is a very very complicated issue and I struggle to always find the correct way to say the things I want to say. But men who are unplugged and STILL make excuses are pathetic. That is who I mainly was commenting on with my first post.
noobolgy said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.