"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I grabbed her ass at the concert,

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:up: so yesterday I went to see the band Sevendust at Las vegas. anyways it was a familly trip, lol. so anyways I was suppost to go with my brother but he got sick so I ended up going by myself. I was actually freaked out, I felt like a dumbass, to be quite honest. so I went in there and pretty much minded my own business. I ended up being really close to the stage it was cool.

after awhile I started to have fun it even got wild lol, tons of pushing and mosh pits, then there was this chick probably 25 pretty hot HB8 she was also by herself, but I could have sworn I saw her with a dude at the beginning (sp)right before the show. so she ends up being really close by me. and this chick is seriously just keeps bumping right into everyone there, then some ****ing guys in the back push me and like a rock show I bump the people next to me. then there was a time I accidenty grabed her ass. at first I was like oh s*it but she acted like she didnt mind. it was an accident. I even wanted to say sorry but the damn show was to loud. later we come in contact again. this time she keeps f*cking falling on me.

So my hands are down and her ass keeps touching them, it gets to be kinda crazy. in my opinion she acted like she didnt give a s*it. by the way she was wearing a silky dress it was sexy lol. but I felt bad touching her ass and sometimes I admit I grabbed it lol she acted like she didnt care. so I want to know is should I be feeling alright? or should I feel dumb for doing this? also has this ever happened to you guys before? thanks for reading. please help me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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you seriously need to go to some clubs or frat parties and grind with some girls to get these immature feelings of guilt out of your system
 

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killbill said:
:up: so yesterday I went to see the band Sevendust at Las vegas. anyways it was a familly trip, lol. so anyways I was suppost to go with my brother but he got sick so I ended up going by myself. I was actually freaked out, I felt like a dumbass, to be quite honest. so I went in there and pretty much minded my own business. I ended up being really close to the stage it was cool.

after awhile I started to have fun it even got wild lol, tons of pushing and mosh pits, then there was this chick probably 25 pretty hot HB8 she was also by herself, but I could have sworn I saw her with a dude at the beginning (sp)right before the show. so she ends up being really close by me. and this chick is seriously just keeps bumping right into everyone there, then some ****ing guys in the back push me and like a rock show I bump the people next to me. then there was a time I accidenty grabed her ass. at first I was like oh s*it but she acted like she didnt mind. it was an accident. I even wanted to say sorry but the damn show was to loud. later we come in contact again. this time she keeps f*cking falling on me.

So my hands are down and her ass keeps touching them, it gets to be kinda crazy. in my opinion she acted like she didnt give a s*it. by the way she was wearing a silky dress it was sexy lol. but I felt bad touching her ass and sometimes I admit I grabbed it lol she acted like she didnt care. so I want to know is should I be feeling alright? or should I feel dumb for doing this? also has this ever happened to you guys before? thanks for reading. please help me.
Dude...

What the fvck!? You sound like a 12 year old asking whether he should of bought roses for his first date.

First, read the Don Juan bible, second, stop giving so much of a fvck!
 

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If she wasn't attracted to you, she came away thinking you were a creep. If she liked you then it was okay. A pretty girl is getting her azz grabbed a LOT if it's a big concert at a stadium type venue and there are lots of people in the pit. Especially if she is in the middle of the moshpit, wearing a clingy dress, well she knows or will learn pretty quick that her azz will get grabbed. You were probably pretty well behaved.

Don't do that at a punk show, though, or you might get your azz beat.
 

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why should you even give a damn what a girl thought about you in a freakin' loud concert.. a girl you won't even see again in your life.

Nah you shouldnt feel dumb you should feel proud you grabbed some ass :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lol thanks guys I feel much better lol.. It was an awesome concert and I grabbed a hot chicks ass..yes:up:
 

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Always grab azz. If she likes it great. If she doesn't it makes a good story anyway (when you get slapped or kicked in the ballz).
 

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Obsidian said:
you seriously need to go to some clubs or frat parties and grind with some girls to get these immature feelings of guilt out of your system
I agree. Grabbing ass is not a big deal. Do it if you feel like it.

Actually, you know what, I recommend that you go to a club/bar and grab 10 girls asses. It will help you get over this "awkard" feeling. Don't worry, I'm speaking from experience, and it's nothing, it will get you more comfortable.
 
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