"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I gotta find a way to ask her out

The Master Disaster

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So after reading the pimp site on body language she is all over me. No joke she showed me hand that she scrapped a little and so i grabbed at and kinoed. Then she "Accidently bumped into me" then she started flipping her hair a lot when looking at me to grab my attention. When I came to the class she sits in front of me so she faced me dead on sitting on the desk. Pretty Blunt i would say. So now that i know she is into me I gotta find a way to ask her to something. Any pointers?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oakraiderz2

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Do we need to hold your hand while you walk the street?? Maybe you need help wiping your ass since your incabable.
 

SlyD4rK

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Originally posted by shadowfox
you: will u go out with me?

her : ok.
or even better, just say that you are going to (insert place here) this weekend @ (Time) and that she should come. If she can't come, don't worry about it...just invite her to a different place @ a different time/day and that she should come. if she says she can't again...say "Your loss"
 

DJ4Real

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Just invite her. If she says no, or that she's "busy" just tell her that you're going to take someone else that wanted to go and mention that you're going to have a great time.....and then leave with a smile. If she says yes say something funny "OK, good, now when I say 7 I mean 7, so be ready!!!!.....I don't want tyou to come to the door with a "I just gotta fix my hair really quick!" none of that stuff!" then end the conversation with an "adios" or "see you *insert day*"....you just be the one to take control and end the convo.

Good Luck:cool:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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