"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm a sophmore in high school and this weekend I got asked to Prom right at the last minute by a HB9. I thought things were going great and I had her attracted all that jazz until I read something. I read one of her comments to a friend about Prom. She wrote to the friend, "I'm going to Prom, not that hot about the boy (taking one for the team) but the dance will be great".

I feel retarded because I'm being used, what to do? I'm thinking about ditching her but I don't know where to go, socially I don't know how easy it will to be blend in but I might try to hang out with someone else. Looking at the situation with the minimal details I gave you, what would you do in this situation.

BTW I can't really back out now even though I wish I could, got my tux all that stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I would go to prom but refuse to walk down Grand March with her.
 
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yeh thats a heart achor. hmm show her ur a sexual beast and im sure she will think ur hot.
 
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those are good ideas, but if being a hard ass isnt your style, be straight up and tell her you know about the note and then tell her you would rather go stag than be her bi*ch
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good advice guys but I don't feel like being a hardass as chill put it. I'm thinking of just going through the motions at the pre-Prom meal and pictures but once we arrive I'm just going to try to ditch her.

An update on what happened today, I told her best friend's boyfriend that I think she is playing me and naturally he told his girl who told my date. I haven't said anything to her best friend about it even though she is asking me. Saw her in the halls and totally ignored her and she asked her friend why I didn't say anything. At lunch, I walked up to her and asked for my ticket but she said she didn't have it. I didn't really say much to her and she asked me to sign her yearbook, I wrote my name and she wrote "Prom date" next to it so I preceded to write "Taking One For the Team" next to that.

Leaving the lunchroom she asked to take me home from school and I had no choice since my brother got ISAP. I rode home and didn't really talk to her as she had her best friend with her. I talked to her and wasn't showing any forms of attraction and talked to anyone else I saw.

Tommorrow night will be interesting just because of all this sh*t going on right now. She played dumb to my actions but whatever.
 
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