"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i got the best revenge!
- Thread starter j-flex
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
..::comic_relief said:
::..I've been in your shoes. There's something you don't realise yet.j-flex said:
Treating her with kindness, reminding her of what she's done to you, and showing her (covertly of course) how desirable you are now, yet making it clear that she absolutely has no chance with you - that is the worst blow you could deal to that chick.
Teasing her is certainly a good one but you're giving her an excuse to call you an arrogant arsehole and it'd be enough for her to rationalize to herself that it's no big deal that she doesn't have you. However, regreting what you didn't do and thus missing out on something great is the worst feeling in the world. The best revenge is to give the girl such a feeling. And yes certain women in my past had a taste of that.