i got the best revenge!

[j-flex]

when i was in 7th-9th grade i used to be dissed by ALL girls, they would make fun of me and try to hurt my feelings real bad. they would do really mean things to me, which affected me making me insecure, timid, social out cast, big fear of being rejected etc. i used to have lots of acne, be skinny and i was very ugly. (my gf saw old pics and said she couldnt believe it).

there used to be this girl that i asked out and which she dissed me real bad, she once said she wished i was dead. lets call her x

6 years later, im all improved, i have a very muscular body, i dont have any pimples, my face structure changed.

well i went to this party with my wingman, we didnt know ANYBODY but we quickly socialized with all the girls, then i saw X, she walked in front of me without even recognizing me, so i told her, i know you!. you should have seen her face, she couldnt believe it was me. i was totally another different person and for the better.

She on the other hand gained a lot of fat (she was like 185 at 5'4, no joke) , she also got a bad case of acne and her face structure changed and looked like shiet.

we did a small talk,Which then i told her: "i almost didnt recognized you, you changed a lot, what must be?" she said she knows wears glasses, i said "nah i dont think that is" and then i laughed my ass off, turned around and keep talking to an HB.

that felt soo good. in fact i want to "accidentally" cross paths with people who hurted me bad and see their faces with what i have accomplished.

i havent heard from my ex in 3 years, but she hurted me the most, my mom said she saw her working at a certain place last week. maybe i should go with me new gf and "cross" her accidentally. lol.

have you guys experienced something like this??
throw some comments.

 

[Warrior74]

Enjoy it man...but don't go seeking people out. thats a bit petty. Best revenge....good living.

 

[Desdinova]

I've experienced this a couple of times, and it feels great.

Ran into one woman about a year ago who treated me like 5hit in high school. I'll admit, I was a fvcking loser in high school. Jim Belushi wrote in his book "nobody remembers a loser" and he's right on the money about that one. This chick didn't even remember me, but I remembered her! We'll call her Tina.

I went up to her and said, "Aren't you Tina Smith?" She responds in the positive. I tell her "I went to high school with you!" and I gave her my name. She didn't remember me, but seemed happy that she knew me. She was with some friends I knew who love me . Then I tell her "Yeah, you treated me like 5hit!" That big smile on her face turned upside down and she said "how?" I reminded her, and she looked like she was ready to cry, and started apologizing profusely. Of course, I fvcking tease her, "Okay, I GUESS I'll accept your apology." Me and her are actually friends now, and I still bug her about it and she still apologizes for it. And in case you're wondering why I haven't fvcked her, 1) I'm taken and 2) No woman who has disrespected me - past or present - gets the pleasure of having my d1ck inside her.

There is another instance where I was able to bed a woman I was too chicken 5hit to ask out when I was in high school. Now that's what I call victory

 

[Latinoman]

j-flex...move on dude. Continue self-improving.

 

[KontrollerX]

"nah i dont think that is"

Ahahahahhaha!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Ken785]

You are supposed to be a DJ. This girl may have dissed you when you were kids but we are all older now, you have grown and so has she...and i can understand the bitterness and pleasure in getting "revenge", but you are still a DJ and you know nobody is better than the other. Live your life to the fullest and forget about the past, dont let it damage you. Live for the present and the future brother. - Ken

 

[DonGorgon]

Yeh getting good looks and or money makes everything better..

 

[Bloke]

So...

When you were at a low point in your life, she teased you. This changed you internally & became a better man.

Now when she's at her low point, you tease her in the same way. Now this will change HER, & she'll lose all this weight, get a modelling deal, make millions, travel the world... & you'll be in the same place as you are now...

Whether that actually happens doesn't matter. The point I'm making is that you are hardly any different from her. All that's changed is the power has come to you.

I won't deny that being successful is a very satisfying revenge against those who've doubted/hated/teased you. It's one of my motivations. But making a d*ck of yourself only takes away the sweetness of it.

But I'm glad you're on the up... The years after high school really separate the winners & losers.

 

[ezily]

being mean to others is not a trait a DJ should have nor advocate. It isn't becoming. Let bygones be bygones.

 

[Yahooey]

Relish your accomplishments not the revenge.

 

[Jitterbug]

There's a better revenge than that: treat her with kindness, or at least, courtesy.

 

[comic_relief]

I cannot wait to see my old tormentors faces.

Although, I have talked with a previous "acquaintence" about it and he already apologized for it. I accepted his apology, and wanted to become friends. He says over the summer that he wants to buy me a round. I think that I may take him up on it and if there is any problems, I have taken western and eastern martial arts since i left high school.

comic_relief

 

[j-flex]

I cannot wait to see my old tormentors faces.

Although, I have talked with a previous "acquaintence" about it and he already apologized for it. I accepted his apology, and wanted to become friends. He says over the summer that he wants to buy me a round. I think that I may take him up on it and if there is any problems, I have taken western and eastern martial arts since i left high school.

comic_relief

what does he did to you?

 

[j-flex]

There's a better revenge than that: treat her with kindness, or at least, courtesy.

that is some girly behavior, sorry bro.

how can i treat them like that , the people same who made more than half my problems i have today.

im going to share something with you, just so you have an idea.

i just to walk home from school, there were some bullies that used to throw rocks at me, one day i got tired of it, and i stepped to them telling to stop.
the next day i was at recess and this bully came and said we were going to fight, he started throwing punches i didnt see it coming. next thing i know i was on the floor getting hit.
after the teachers stopped the fight, i got black eye and a teared up shirt.

there were some girls pointing their fingers at me and laughin.

later i heard a lot of hoes were glad i got beat up. and the fked up part was that i got suspended even when all i did was defend myself. i was at a catholic school.

another story. there used to be this girl i was getting along real good and she made me think she liked me, well i asked her to be my gf, she said hell no and started disrepecting me saying i was disgusting and fkin ugly and things like that, she and her friends made fun of me later.

now imagine, that shiet for a 14 yr old is real bad, those 3 years affected me a lot and made all the problems i have to deal now like insecurity, paranoia, etc. they were the worst 3 years of my life.


you just opened some scars. now im real mad (at them).

if i see some hoe or azzhole i wont do the same things back, but i will tell them something like this:

"Do you see me now
you remember me the guy from the back of the class
that used to where the glasses the one you
used to laugh at look at me now brother do u like fruit
well I'm chewin your girls nipples
how do you like them apples *******"

"Now its not funny cause im hot and got a pot of money
alot of hunnies around "

"Don't you forget about me now"

 

[jcap]

hahaha, for some reason i like jflex

good going for turning your life around


most people b1tch about their past , you made a change.

And its alright to boast about it, we don't always have to be "good"

Because evil is also acceptable, death and life, evil and good, all good in the hood, just don't let it eat at you away

but love the ego beating, its hilarious


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I wouldn't blame you one bit.

 

[theunflushables]

See if I have to criticize your actions, I'd say you didn't rip into her enough. She once said she wished you were dead. After she said something about "its the glasses" I would of said something like "No, its because you're a fat piece of sh1t." And then walked away.

 

[ezily]

that is some girly behavior, sorry bro.

how can i treat them like that , the people same who made more than half my problems i have today.

im going to share something with you, just so you have an idea.

i just to walk home from school, there were some bullies that used to throw rocks at me, one day i got tired of it, and i stepped to them telling to stop.
the next day i was at recess and this bully came and said we were going to fight, he started throwing punches i didnt see it coming. next thing i know i was on the floor getting hit.
after the teachers stopped the fight, i got black eye and a teared up shirt.

there were some girls pointing their fingers at me and laughin.

later i heard a lot of hoes were glad i got beat up. and the fked up part was that i got suspended even when all i did was defend myself. i was at a catholic school.

another story. there used to be this girl i was getting along real good and she made me think she liked me, well i asked her to be my gf, she said hell no and started disrepecting me saying i was disgusting and fkin ugly and things like that, she and her friends made fun of me later.

now imagine, that shiet for a 14 yr old is real bad, those 3 years affected me a lot and made all the problems i have to deal now like insecurity, paranoia, etc. they were the worst 3 years of my life.


you just opened some scars. now im real mad (at them).

if i see some hoe or azzhole i wont do the same things back, but i will tell them something like this:

"Do you see me now
you remember me the guy from the back of the class
that used to where the glasses the one you
used to laugh at look at me now brother do u like fruit
well I'm chewin your girls nipples
how do you like them apples *******"

"Now its not funny cause im hot and got a pot of money
alot of hunnies around "

"Don't you forget about me now"

Yeah stuff similar to your situation happened to a lot of people (maybe not as bad as you but similar). I think you need to move on. If it wasn't for them you wouldn't be where you are today, both good and bad. There's no real need to be mean to others. If it makes you feel good then there's something wrong with you. You all were kids back then. You didn't like being treated that way. Why would you start treating others, even if they are the ones who bullied you, like you were once treated? It's just not right.

 

[comic_relief]

How do you like me now?

I was always the crazy one
I broke into the stadium
And I wrote your number on the 50 yard line
You were always the perfect one
And the valadictorian so
Under your number I wrote "call for a good time"

I only wanted to catch your attention
But you overlooked me somehow
Besides you had too many boyfriends to mention
And I played my guitar too loud.

How do you like me now?
How do you like me now,
Now that I'm on my way?
Do you still think I'm crazy
Standin here today?
I couldnt make you love me
But I always dreamed about living in your radio
How do you like me now?

When I took off to Tennessee
I heard that you made fun of me
Never imagined I'd make it this far
Then you married into money girl
Aint it a cruel and funny world?
He took your dreams and tore them apart.

He never comes home
And youre always alone
And your kids hear you cryin down the hall
Alarm clock starts ringin
Who could that be singin
Its me baby, with your wake up call!

How do you like me now?
How do you like me now,
Now that I'm on my way?
Do you still think I'm crazy
Standin here today?
I couldnt make you love me
But I always dreamed about living in your radio
How do you like me now?

Tell me baby...
I will preach on...

what does he did to you?

My bully was originally my friend, but saw a character flaw in myself that I couldn't laugh at myself. So, he turned ALL of my friends (except 7 people who I played baseball with) against me. I felt like sh!t and wanted to commit suicide almost every day. It was the sh!ttiest time in my life.

A few examples of what he did was accuse me of necrophilia and bestiality, put manure in my locker, put stink bombs in my locker, put gay porn in my locker, said that I got hit in the face with a sock full of ****, gave my number out to a gay person, covered my car with sh!t, egged my grandmothers house, through M80's out the window at my grams house to scare the sh!t out of her, and many other things.

I was just about ready to commit suicide, but then I found sosuave and self-improvement literature.

I then went to the most prestigious school in the state of Pennsylvania for teaching (PGST) and gained national recognition at the FCCLA.

They eventually ended up apologizing at my graduation and did a five minute speech for me at graduation. What I told them was "Don't be sorry, for you gave me the great yes to life and to quote Nietzsche 'whatever doesn't kill me, only makes me stronger.' Please do not be sorry because I am what you made me and I will be surpassing you in the future. That is a promise."

I have so far lived up to that promise and this summer will be my most ambitious.

comic_relief

 

[j-flex]

wow man, that sucks, i feel you.

i dont understand how you can still get along with him. if i were you i would kick his ass, or at midnight fck his car or something like it. but then again when your life is good you dont even care about revenge.

im glad you didnt suicide . a lot of people fall in the victim category, i refuse to be one.

watch the movie "rudy" and listen to the song ·"laughin at you now" by big pun, you will identify with them.

What i like is that all the pain they gave me was the fuel to improve myself, but sometimes i cant erase those scars, im still dealing with them.

most of those people who were very popular and stuff back then now are all fked up, they be drug addicts, their gf be pregnant, study at ****ty schools etc. , im laughin a those pieces of chit now.

theunflushables
See if I have to criticize your actions, I'd say you didn't rip into her enough. She once said she wished you were dead. After she said something about "its the glasses" I would of said something like "No, its because you're a fat piece of sh1t." And then walked away.

that is a very good one, never thought of that. but still, she knows is not the glasses, she is not stupid lol. she knows is because she is a big piece of lard.

 

[DJDamage]

You are supposed to be a DJ. This girl may have dissed you when you were kids but we are all older now, you have grown and so has she...and i can understand the bitterness and pleasure in getting "revenge", but you are still a DJ and you know nobody is better than the other. Live your life to the fullest and forget about the past, dont let it damage you. Live for the present and the future brother. - Ken

Best advice right here.