i got the best revenge!

[Effington]

The best revenge is living well...but as the original post points out, it sweetens the deal when the other person isn't. You "win"!


Keep on keepin' on.

 

[[S]alvatore]

They eventually ended up apologizing at my graduation and did a five minute speech for me at graduation. What I told them was "Don't be sorry, for you gave me the great yes to life and to quote Nietzsche 'whatever doesn't kill me, only makes me stronger.' Please do not be sorry because I am what you made me and I will be surpassing you in the future. That is a promise."

I have so far lived up to that promise and this summer will be my most ambitious.

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[Jitterbug]

that is some girly behavior, sorry bro.

how can i treat them like that , the people same who made more than half my problems i have today.

I've been in your shoes. There's something you don't realise yet.

Treating her with kindness, reminding her of what she's done to you, and showing her (covertly of course) how desirable you are now, yet making it clear that she absolutely has no chance with you - that is the worst blow you could deal to that chick.

Teasing her is certainly a good one but you're giving her an excuse to call you an arrogant arsehole and it'd be enough for her to rationalize to herself that it's no big deal that she doesn't have you. However, regreting what you didn't do and thus missing out on something great is the worst feeling in the world. The best revenge is to give the girl such a feeling. And yes certain women in my past had a taste of that.