"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i got promoted...but still i,m not happy

manish

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hey guys...i got promoted yesterday...but its not making me happy..because i,m still a employee..i want to start something of my own.

or i,m not happy because of my nature...very confused...

i felt good when i heard abt it, but within 5 mins it all went down..

:(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SamTheHobit

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So then start your own business!
 

Htienvu

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Best to work for yourself, it's much more work but it's also more fulfilling.
 

squirrels

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Promoted from what to what? I'm assuming that this is a REAL promotion, not moving from fries to the grill. :p


I love these guys who want to run out and start a random business after hearing some rah-rah speech from one of these Brian Tracy/Tony Robbins types, without any business idea, business plan, or business-savvy whatsoever. They are the reason that you hear statistics like, "90% of start-up businesses fail within the first xx years". :p

I've seen guys try business after business, incorporating, financing, flopping, ruining their credit through repeated trial-and-error, going from one ill-thought-out operation to the next, hoping that the next one they try will give them their "big break" and that their day-job will sustain them until they get lucky. Trial-and-error is one way to learn these lessons...but if you're in a good position, why not learn from the lessons of others?

If it's any kind of "decent" position you've been promoted to, i.e. something where you can truly set policy/direction or learn from those that do, take this time to LEARN something. Watch how these people operate...learn how they use people and learn to use THEM. Learn how to plan (and how not to plan). Learn when to take risks (and when NOT to take them). Learn what kind of marketing works and what kind people just laugh off.

Consider it real-world education. Learn what to do and what NOT to do. :) Then you'll be better equipped when you set out on your own.

Just my opinion...which is worth what you paid for it.
 

f283000

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squirrels said:
I love these guys who want to run out and start a random business after hearing some rah-rah speech from one of these Brian Tracy/Tony Robbins types, without any business idea, business plan, or business-savvy whatsoever. They are the reason that you hear statistics like, "90% of start-up businesses fail within the first xx years". :p
Everyone and their grandma wants to start their own business now a days!

I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing. I think it's a good thing that people want to get out of the rat race and try to make something happen for themselves.

What I think is a bit annoying is all these younger people talking about starting their own business and being so tired of working "for the man" bla bla bla.

These young people have barely been in the work force for a couple years and more than likely haven't done any real hard work in all their life (and no starbucks and cubicle work is not hard work).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74

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f283000 said:
Everyone and their grandma wants to start their own business now a days!

I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing. I think it's a good thing that people want to get out of the rat race and try to make something happen for themselves.

What I think is a bit annoying is all these younger people talking about starting their own business and being so tired of working "for the man" bla bla bla.

These young people have barely been in the work force for a couple years and more than likely haven't done any real hard work in all their life (and no starbucks and cubicle work is not hard work).
Most people start businesses in recessions because they have to. I'm working on mine right now because guess what...I don't have a job, its either this or starve.

As for getting out of the rat race...well I found a mentor who is teaching me the ropes, but its gone from being in the rat race to the horse race. Stakes are higher, but its more fun to watch.
 
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