I GOT KIDNAPPED - experience from a woman

[Desdinova]

I figured I'd post this, because it verifies what's being taught here. I belong to another discussion group, and this post really caught my attention.

My boyfriend came down to visit and possibly stay with me in El Paso.
Well, as you can see that didn't happen.

He was feeling really uncomfortable in El Paso, being that this is a
border town. And he was always kidding around about me running away
with him to his home state of Virginia.

Last night, he wanted to go for a "little" ride. We first ended up in
Fabens TX (15 mi east of El Paso). Then we fille up the gas tank. He
comes back in the car and says, "let's go to VA."

"ok, I'm all on board, but don't you think we need to go back and, oh,
uh, get diapers for (my 2 yr old), some food and other
important stuff?"

"we possibly won't be coming back."

"um, don't you think we need to get all my paperwork and notify my
landlord then."

"trust me. just trust me."

you know, in any other situation this would be considered kidnapping.
but i'm a fool for love. and i love him. it took me 3 years for us to
get back together. it would rip my heart if i lost him again.

"how are we gonna get diapers."

"trust me."

"i cant use my food stamps out of state."

"trust me."

Well, after about 30 odd hours, we're here. His mom knew we were
coming (about 6 hrs before) and is quite awkward about the situation
and i tried to tell her that i could not convince her son to turn
around and it was a pretty much lost cause, oh, about the time we got
to the end of arkansas.

now, i have to transfer schools, forward my mail, and make a special
trip to get my important stuff.

and my mom is going to be so pissed. we went through tennessee and i
couldn't get him to make a detour to go visit her and my family. now i
have to find the right time to call her and tell her everything.
laters

Can you identify why she went with him?

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Desdinova
I figured I'd post this, because it verifies what's being taught here. I belong to another discussion group, and this post really caught my attention.



Can you identify why she went with him?

Because she's a moron.

You're probably trying to get at the fact that he was so self-assured and confident and seemed to take charge of the situation, blah blah blah, but the bottom line is that she's a moron.

 

[Walden]

Off topic.

 

[dietzcoi]

Sounds like the tales of trailer park trash.

Doesn't mean anything, but she may have gotten with him at first, and had a kid, due to him being a confident jerk

So, yes, the ideas presented on this site do have merit

Dietzcoi

 

[xblitz44x]

Low self esteem. She didn't want to lose what she had. She could have easily got him to stop if she wanted to. "Don't you think...." isn't the same as saying: "Stop the car. I don't want to go with you." Maybe she liked the idea of running away and when people questioned her decision-making she could easily blame it on her boyfriend so that she can hide the fact that she's a moron.

 

[Desdinova]

but the bottom line is that she's a moron.

I agree, but she's also a woman. I will also agree that the guy is an idiot (and it was stated in part 2 of this experience that he has a mental disorder). But here is what pushed her buttons:

- He was confident in what he was doing
- He was doing something that was exciting

Even though what he did was incredibly stupid, she followed. Why?

but i'm a fool for love. and i love him.

Translate that from ********:

What he was doing may have been stupid, but I'm attracted to him because he's so confident and exciting and I want it to continue

This woman left behind all her belongings and her life because she was attracted to this fvckup.

Women function on emotion, not logic.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Desdinova
Women function on emotion, not logic.

That's what I said...she's a moron.

 

[diplomatic_lie]

The moral of this story is, to be a great DJ, you must kidnap a woman.

 

[xblitz44x]

"Women function on emotion, not logic."

There is a lot more to it than that. A person who has a decent head on her shoulders will be able to over-ride what he/she feels like doing to do what is ultimately right for themselves. However, people (not just women) with low-self esteem do not have the strength to do that and do whatever it takes to hold onto that which she feels "gives her" acceptence or gratification.

"Women function on emotion, not logic" has become nothing more than a cliche.

 

[xblitz44x]

"The moral of this story is, to be a great DJ, you must kidnap a woman."

Actually, to be a great DJ you must kidnap her, then duct tape her and throw her in the trunk. That is what being a man is all about. Pook said this.

 

[Bonhomme]

LOL @ xblitz comment

 

[Desdinova]

people (not just women) with low-self esteem do not have the strength to do that and do whatever it takes to hold onto that which she feels "gives her" acceptence or gratification.

xblitz, this is an excellent observation, and it's very true. Also, nice to see you're still posting once in a while

Perhaps it's a bit of both. She didn't have the strength to stand up for herself, but she did it for "love". "Love" has conquered over any kind of reasoning from her end.

And yes, it is her fault for allowing herself to be "kidnapped", if you can call it that.

Actually, to be a great DJ you must kidnap her, then duct tape her and throw her in the trunk. That is what being a man is all about. Pook said this.

Yeah, I think I read that in his "Kill That Desperate *****" and "Be a Duct Tape Man"

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by xblitz44x
Actually, to be a great DJ you must kidnap her, then duct tape her and throw her in the trunk. That is what being a man is all about. Pook said this.

Dude, you totally forgot the part about locking her in your basement.

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
The moral of this story is, to be a great DJ, you must kidnap a woman.

 

[xblitz44x]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Dude, you totally forgot the part about locking her in your basement.

Well this was more about sealing the deal. Once she is taped up and unconscious, isolating her back to your basement isn't usually too much of an issue. ASD is typically minimized. Because they can use the "He knocked me out and tied me up" exuse so that they don't look like a slut.

 

[diplomatic_lie]

Do you think its more DJ to use regular duct tape? I reckon its AFC to use the regular ones, the electrical tape is far more DJ.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

If she is mentally unbalanced/unstable, then all bets are off. Doesn't matter if you're a DJ or not. She'll do stupid things.