Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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iluvfemales

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Last night I went to this wicked party with a lot of hot girls. This was the night that I decided to suck it up and kept one thing on my mind. To get a girl's number that I like physically and emotionally. So I had conversations with a good 5 or 6 different girls, each one had some qualities I liked and some I didn't.
Some decided to be b1tches to me to see how I would react but since I really didn't care how they treated me (since there only making themself look bad by doing it) they actually got more intreged by me. I simply kept talking to more people and making jokes.
Now the only thing I regret about last night was that I let myself get a little to involved in the drinking games which prevented me from being as witty as Ii usually am. But I still had enough brain cells working to remember to ask this one girl for her number on my way out the door. I'd rate her as a HB7 but everytime I talked to her it was like a breath of fresh air when compared to the rest.
My question is that I know this girl digs me but im not sure where to bring her when I call her later this week. I'm also not sure if it's a good idea to ask her what she likes to do because id rather take inicitive and bring her somewhere she doesn't expect. Then again I don't want to take her anywhere fancy because I don't know her well enough to invest in it. So do any of you dj's have some suggestions for me?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't ask her where she wants to go, you will look like your boring and you dont know where to go to have fun.

If she likes you, take her out for a coffee? Its not expensive and it allows you to have plenty of time to chat about things and continue getting her.

When you mean by you dont know where to take her? You dont mean paying for her do you? :confused:
 

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I think coffee is too boring, i've met her at other parties before and we've talked, but at that time she had a boyfriend. I want to bring her somewhere interactive but places like a pool hall or bowling are too cliche.
 

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DO NOT GO COFFEEING!!!!

Do a search and type in Gunwitch, and read his post on clubbing. It will tell you about those situations.

If this girl does not flake on you, go somewhere action wise. Like bowling, or ski diving or whatever. And remember, HAVE FUNNN
 

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your thinking to much into things and your trying to impress the girl. theres nothing wrong with a pool hall or bowling, if she turns around and says thats to cliche then its her loss. take her some where that you will both have fun (use your imagination) do not ASK her where she wants to go.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah make sure its fun,

you could take her to a fair ground, and shoot a few cans to win a big teddy and then give it to.... a little girl... ha ha...she will get jelous of another girl, however old she is, thats a fact..

then take her on a goast train, sneak out half way through, and scare her at the other end....

get on a roller coaster and go nuts with her, let her get involved with the fun your having... not the other way round!!!!
 

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Going out for Coffee is fine, especially to a lounge.
I got out with a European chick, and going for coffee is "TRENDY".
 

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The vibe im catching off this girl is more like she wants to get in my pants, so i want to go somewhere that doesn't give her the impression that i want a long term relationship. I currently have another girl that im working on to be my LTRG.
 
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