"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i got her jealous... now what!?!?

guitarmatt18

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so i know that a very good technique to get a girl interested in you is to get her jealous... well this girl is ABSOLUTELY JEALOUS!... i told her about this girl who i liked and now everything i say i like in a girl she hints she has.. i even said i like a girl with confidence and she flat out said... "IM GLAD TO SAY I HAVE IT... GOT TO GO!"... well now im thinking.....

"how do i advance this situation more into my favor so i can get closer to her and not just be making her into me?....bcuz i know if i start getting flirty she will hint on and start thinking she is in control..."

so what do i do? what would be a great way to get this girl to want to do more with me than just look at me and be attracted to me? i'm talking about kissing and more! thanks...

i didn't post this in the highschool forum even tho im a teen so sorry for those who care... i just figured this is a common question no matter what the age.... thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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guitarmatt18

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bump... need some serious help guys... well i'm off i hope i get some advice soon... thanks.. any advice is welcomed and appreciated
 

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*cough qualify cough*

show your interest tentatively, make her prove herself.

this shows interest and keeps you in control.

you can show interest without looking like an AFC, thats what direct game is all about
 

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you have attraction. move to rapport. Agreed, direct game is what its all about.

To convey sexual interest, kino her and get yourselves comfortable on a physical leve. Then, SOI when you see it fit.
 
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