"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i got her jealous... now what!?!?

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guitarmatt18

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so i know that a very good technique to get a girl interested in you is to get her jealous... well this girl is ABSOLUTELY JEALOUS!... i told her about this girl who i liked and now everything i say i like in a girl she hints she has.. i even said i like a girl with confidence and she flat out said... "IM GLAD TO SAY I HAVE IT... GOT TO GO!"... well now im thinking.....

"how do i advance this situation more into my favor so i can get closer to her and not just be making her into me?....bcuz i know if i start getting flirty she will hint on and start thinking she is in control..."

so what do i do? what would be a great way to get this girl to want to do more with me than just look at me and be attracted to me? i'm talking about kissing and more! thanks...

i didn't post this in the highschool forum even tho im a teen so sorry for those who care... i just figured this is a common question no matter what the age.... thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bump... need some serious help guys... well i'm off i hope i get some advice soon... thanks.. any advice is welcomed and appreciated
 
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*cough qualify cough*

show your interest tentatively, make her prove herself.

this shows interest and keeps you in control.

you can show interest without looking like an AFC, thats what direct game is all about
 
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you have attraction. move to rapport. Agreed, direct game is what its all about.

To convey sexual interest, kino her and get yourselves comfortable on a physical leve. Then, SOI when you see it fit.
 
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