"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I got her digits from a friend

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The-Kid

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What up fellers

I met this chick a few weeks ago. Her mother was always around us so i didnt get a chance to ask her for her number or show her that im interested in her, anyway i got her digits from a friend who got it from someone who works with her? (i swear im not the stalker type :D )

So... How should i play it?
should i sms her?
should i call her?


any tips on how i should open the conversation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oddly, I have done this before successfully, so you could try calling. But in my case, the girl was 19, and neither of us were very socially experienced. It's worth a shot if this is a young one. (You're over 24, RIGHT!?)

Is there any way you could get the e-mail or some sort of myspace page? That would be vastly less likely to appear creepy.

But finally, you know where she works! So go bump into her and ask her for the digits there. Yes, it is very inappropriate to get someone's private # from 3rd party friends .
 
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Hey Phyzzle

Thanks man. She works in a department where they do not deal with the public :( oh well i guess its not worth the effort rite? should i NEXT her?
 
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He must be over 25 Phyzzle - he's in the mature man forum right? Even if her mom was hanging around all the time it can still be intimidating.
You got the number from her friend? Fine call it and leave a brief message as to remind her who you are and call back. If she does great if not, oh well.
P.S.
You have nothing going here to next fwiw
 
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