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I have for some time now been very anti-social, because of this drug called World Of Warcraft. Lets just say I have been a geek for 3 months or so. Been out maybe 3 times during that period.
No Im not like that all the time, as a matter of fact it had started to bother me alittle.
Last thursday I decided to go out with my friend. He had a friend come from another town that was going to meet this girl he wanted in our town. They all had met on an online community.
The night went and we all had a great time, but it quickly became obvious that the girls expectations were not met so she ended up spending preatty much 90% of the night with me. With the benefit of hind sight I can say that I preatty much did everything right with her, and I did so without even thinking. The main thing I did was I showed intrest in HER without showing I was intrested IN her. There is a big diff.
However at the end of the night I didn't ask for nr, nothing, we said good bye and we all went out ways.
The next morning my friend talks to me and goes "Dude wtf did you do last night with her?" Im like what? It turns out I made such an impression on her she went on that online community they all met on and started talking about me. Couldnt keep it quite so now everyone on the said site knows she is kinda in love. She is a rather popular girl, both on the site and IRL in our town. She went and spread all these wonderful things about me, my looks, etc. So yatzi for me I guess =)
Conclusion is, the girl is head over heels for me and I was seriously not even trying.
THE RANT
The above is just as much of a blessing as it is a curse, it seem that most women I get envolved with get strong emotions for me either right away or very soon after we meet.
THE ENDING
I created an account on the community site, and was all shocked about what she had written. So we wrote online, adns he tells me she hasnt felt like this for 2 years, she was interested in me from the first second etc. I didn't give her the answer she wanted though. I was like "ah no I don't want to talk about private things online like this". So I took her nr and Im suppose to call her today.
So my Q is (yes there was a meaning in all this) the initial hard work is preatty much done here, there is none of that playing around crap. She wants me bad and obviously I have an intrest in her. How do I go about this?
I dont want answers as there are none in things like this, I want advice. Dont start arguing with each other, all advice are welcome.
I have for some time now been very anti-social, because of this drug called World Of Warcraft. Lets just say I have been a geek for 3 months or so. Been out maybe 3 times during that period.
No Im not like that all the time, as a matter of fact it had started to bother me alittle.
Last thursday I decided to go out with my friend. He had a friend come from another town that was going to meet this girl he wanted in our town. They all had met on an online community.
The night went and we all had a great time, but it quickly became obvious that the girls expectations were not met so she ended up spending preatty much 90% of the night with me. With the benefit of hind sight I can say that I preatty much did everything right with her, and I did so without even thinking. The main thing I did was I showed intrest in HER without showing I was intrested IN her. There is a big diff.
However at the end of the night I didn't ask for nr, nothing, we said good bye and we all went out ways.
The next morning my friend talks to me and goes "Dude wtf did you do last night with her?" Im like what? It turns out I made such an impression on her she went on that online community they all met on and started talking about me. Couldnt keep it quite so now everyone on the said site knows she is kinda in love. She is a rather popular girl, both on the site and IRL in our town. She went and spread all these wonderful things about me, my looks, etc. So yatzi for me I guess =)
Conclusion is, the girl is head over heels for me and I was seriously not even trying.
THE RANT
The above is just as much of a blessing as it is a curse, it seem that most women I get envolved with get strong emotions for me either right away or very soon after we meet.
THE ENDING
I created an account on the community site, and was all shocked about what she had written. So we wrote online, adns he tells me she hasnt felt like this for 2 years, she was interested in me from the first second etc. I didn't give her the answer she wanted though. I was like "ah no I don't want to talk about private things online like this". So I took her nr and Im suppose to call her today.
So my Q is (yes there was a meaning in all this) the initial hard work is preatty much done here, there is none of that playing around crap. She wants me bad and obviously I have an intrest in her. How do I go about this?
I dont want answers as there are none in things like this, I want advice. Dont start arguing with each other, all advice are welcome.