"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I got email from russian girl from dating lava life

picard

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I received email from russian girl. She wants to get hitch with me. I copied the email here so you guys can check it out. Do you think she is genuine material or mafia girl?

Hi my best friend Alexander. I hope you not against, that I name you
the best friend. Simply I very much to you attachment, and I think,
that you my best friend! At us with you as I understand the new
feeling arises I has felt such feeling at school when by studied in 8
class I then have fallen in love with one the boy, but at present he
drinks alcohol very much In general in Russia, more people drink
vodka, I do not understand why. I very big opponent of the use of
alcohol and I in life of it shall never use! And still, I also against
smoking and the more so against use of a drug I think, that this
superfluous Recently happened so I was on funeral the classmate. All
the matter is that he recently has died of that that he used drugs and
he has died of the too many use. He was the excellent friend, he
always came to me to the aid when it was bad. He was the successful
businessman. But unfortunately he has given in to drugs and
unfortunately there is no him more with us. I regret about it very
much, and consequently I am categorically against drugs. It was very
pleasant for me to receive from you the letter I start to be pleased
lifes, and this pleasure is connected with you that we have found each
other. You - remarkable male! With such male as you, I would agree to
lead all life I know, that it is possible to rely on you, I completely
trust you and I know that such male as you, never me deceive. The
deceit is the most bad character trait of the person, it at all does
not decorate the person! Probably it is interesting to you, why I in
general began to correspond with you? I can tell you only one.
Understand me I can not find male in Russia, which loved me and
respected. As one wise man has told " when we live we are in search,
in search that who can go with you on vital ways, because to one to go
very much and very much Difficultly. " I think what you agree with me?
I think of you very often and I recollect all letters which you wrote
to me. In them I see many warmth and kindness. I want to hope, that I
am not indifferent to you too. I send you my photo. I hope that it
like to you. Please write to me as much as possible, I like reading
your letters and communication with you makes me very happy and I look
forward to it. It is also very exiting to believe that perhaps someday
we might actually meet. I shall wait for your answer. Kisses.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJDamage

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picard said:
Do you think she is genuine material or mafia girl?
Translation : "Dear sucker, please use your money to bring me to your country where I will pretend to be the woman of your dreams. After I find out about your financial situation, we will get married and I will clean out your account and spend your money on myself, bring in the rest of my family from Russia, divorce you and take your house and your car as well"

DjDamage
 

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I am not a fool. I know it is a scam. It was funny to read email. :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Play with her for awhile, get her to send you nude stuff.
 
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