"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I got chub.

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I remember reading a post Roosh made on his blog a while ago about no matter if a chick isnt HB 8-9 if she passed the "chub" test then thats a good sign.
I have to agree with this.

In the building I work there are some hot chicks, unfortunately not on my floor but on other floors. They walk around in their business attire with stone cold faces and are about as approachable as radio-active leaking nuclear powerplant.
However one chick who is no more than HB 6.5 (although she doesnt wear much make up and could probably improve a point if she did - but does have a slim figure, friendly cutish face and long hair) who has been on to me about quitting smoking.

She caught me having a cig outside the office building this morning and was onto me in a friendly banter asking me when am I going to give up etc.
Well as she was talking to me I got a chubby. As we were talking I was envisioning sliding into her nether regions then pulling out and blowing my mustard all over her face.

I probably won't persue this as I can envision difficulties with banging a chick that works in your office - but still, there is something to be said about being attracted to chicks that are not 'classical' beauties.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zunder said:
They walk around in their business attire with stone cold faces and are about as approachable as radio-active leaking nuclear powerplant.
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Hilarious!

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As we were talking I was envisioning sliding into her nether regions then pulling out and blowing my mustard all over her face.
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Geez, thanks for the visual.
 
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Hilarious!



Geez, thanks for the visual.
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Ha ha, I guess the point I was making is that unlike when I was 20 and I'd crack a woody over any semi-decent looking chick, my wood-cracking is now more discerning....her conversation skills, the way she acts, the positive vibes can bring on a semi even if she isnt the greatest looking.
 
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In my experience this happens to me when I am getting vibes that I have a better than 50/50 shot at banging the girl I am interacting with and she is pushing the right buttons in the way she is interacting with me. The interaction has an overt sexual overtone.

Could be whats happening here.
 
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st_99 said:
In my experience this happens to me when I am getting vibes that I have a better than 50/50 shot at banging the girl I am interacting with and she is pushing the right buttons in the way she is interacting with me. The interaction has an overt sexual overtone.

Could be whats happening here.
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I think you are right. She was playing with her hair and looking straight at me, changed subject from smoking to asking how work was going blah blah/
It was at about this time I started chubbing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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st_99 said:
In my experience this happens to me when I am getting vibes that I have a better than 50/50 shot at banging the girl I am interacting with and she is pushing the right buttons in the way she is interacting with me. The interaction has an overt sexual overtone.

Could be whats happening here.
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In my experience this is precisely what is happening here. You are simply digging this chick.

The is the same affect a DJ should be having on a woman.
 
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