"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I Got CB'd by the Bartender...

Solomon

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This story is kinda funny (this is something these PUA/fake ass Guru's will never tell their students but it happens, even to them)

I'm at the bar just talking to this black hottie. I'm qualfying her, using my wing as DHV and Social Proof, and just checking her vibe. I can see it in her eyes she is trying to make up her mind about it. I'm just about to go for it all of a sudden the bartender whips out her phone and sticks it in her face, and it's a text that say's


Hey don't give him your number, he is no good​

^^ROFL, I was amazed honestly, it doesn't help that I was bent, I mean I tipped the bartender 25% (8 dollar drink, 2 dollar tip).

oh well you live and you learn......
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lmfao are you fvcking joking? I'm willing to bet that the bartender was jealous that you weren't hitting on her!:crackup:
 

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Wow, I think I know her!

Did you try to turn it around? What did the HB do after that?
 

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So the bartender Demonstrated Higher Value, and she saw it and didn't give you her number?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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