"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i got caught red handed today checking out this woman's feet lol

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I am back home in little rock for various reasons mainly to go to the arknasas game saturday in fayetville and to visit family. I got a taste for chesters which sells fried chicken and so I go to this grocery store that I know has chestrs in it and as soon as I walk in, there is this woman who just got off work in this white blouse, this blac k skirt and these classic 6 inch high **** me pumps with no stockings. Out of instinct I kinda stalk her lol I can kinda see the foot clevage lol and it looks promising so we are both in line at chesters and she starts popp;ing her heel / dangling her shoe off her toe and I'm like, stuck lol. i mean ovbiously i'm just looking lol, but i can't not look lol. she was working the **** out that shoe.

And i guess she could feel someone looking at her and she turns arounda nd I mean, i'm still just looking at her foot lol.


So she's like umm.. are you looking at my feet? I'm like.. yeah lol. She's like well what do you think lol? i'm like I haven't moved yet so what do you think lol.


[This was one of those situtations I could tell she wanted me to hit on her / get her number but I was just voyerging lol i had no intention of talking toi her I like feet lol. But i also don't want to be the creepy foot guy so I tell her I normally don't just oggle women and I'm married but you have amazingly pretty feet


she knew what she was dloing popping those ****ing heels playing with my emotions
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Another lost opportunity to get a footjob…
 

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Caught red-footed is more like it.

I'm a foot man, too. Can't resist. I've never been verbally confronted but if I were, I would say, "Of course! How could I not?"

I'm noticing with great amusement that other guys are using my own tricks when it comes to my girlfriend. Let's say she and I are walking down the sidewalk and up ahead is a like-minded man sitting on the bench. I can see him calculating her trajectory and fixing his eyes on the estimated target zone until she passes and he gets a perfect look at her feet. Gotta give the guy credit when I see that. He thinks no one knows, but that's my trick so I see it every time. :up:
 

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nothing is better than a woman who has been in heels all day then they take their shoe off and their bottom of their foot is all sweaty and red and **** lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This isn't my thing, but I've noticed that I've never heard of a woman who had a foot fetish. Do you think such a woman exists? Lesbian, maybe.
But have you ever heard of a woman who had a thing for men's feet lol? Why do you think this is such an exclusively male persuasion?
 

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I'm not a foot person but I did once get seriously turned on from a girls hands. They looked perfect and she was attractive too, I said hi and held my hand out to greet her and just kept holding it while talking to her in a bus, there weren't that many people and it was during my first year of university. As we kept talking I took her hands and kissed them a couple times during the conversation and she just started giggling but I couldn't help it. Didn't really pursue her either cause I was in a relationship but it was an interesting experience, never knew I had that kind of fetish.
 

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This isn't my thing, but I've noticed that I've never heard of a woman who had a foot fetish. Do you think such a woman exists? Lesbian, maybe.
But have you ever heard of a woman who had a thing for men's feet lol? Why do you think this is such an exclusively male persuasion?
British Porn Star (retried) rose petal once admitted in a pre porno couch interview she had a fetish for men's feet and in the middle of getting railed she was sucking some dudes toe
 

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there are different types of foot fetishes too. it's not just the whoole foot. for me it's the arches / the bottom of the feet more than anything els

so i'm more turned on by a woman with high arches in heels than i am with a woman who just has on flip flops. i mean i'll take the flip flops lol but i prefer the high arch woman.


my wife has big ass feet lol her feet are bigger than mine but they are very formley and she has the highest arches i've ever seen.
 

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Lmao you dudes are freaks @backbreaker @Atom Smasher

I love high heels almost more than any other single article of clothing on a woman, I love them so much I tell girls to leave their heels on while we fwck, but it's got nothing to do with the feet itself for me lol

Legs, on the other hand...lube me up and I'll do some perverted sh1t lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i so own my foot fetish tho lol i don't give a ****. my wife thinks it's too cute.
 

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I'm a guy with a foot fetish, women in heals have never done anything for me, women in Birks especially Gizeh, I guess its the fact they make a girls feet smell. I've been caught looking, but us guys have our ways of looking without getting noticed lol, got to keep in mind most women think their feet are gross, they are self conscious about their foot odor etc.
 

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got to keep in mind most women think their feet are gross
I've heard that but I don't believe it. Nearly all women regularly wear open toed shoes, flip flops, or walk around barefoot as often as not. If they thought their feet were ugly, why would they do that?
 

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I've heard that but I don't believe it. Nearly all women regularly wear open toed shoes, flip flops, or walk around barefoot as often as not. If they thought their feet were ugly, why would they do that?
I know I find it funny that women think this way, soon as the weather gets warm enough they wear open toed shoes. My ex would kick off her work shoes peal off her wet sweaty socks and put on a pair of birks that she had for a long time that smelled pretty ripe.
 

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being country lol

my wife is nutrul on feet she doesn't hate them she don't love her feet but if like she is going to the gas station or walking out side i have to at times remind her to put on shoes and this ain't green achers


country girls / girls from the south tend to walik barefoot more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I find it very strange how some men are into female feet and others aren't. They say that the sexual centers of the brain are right next door to the part of the brain that senses the extremities, and that a cross-firing occurs, sort of an electrical leak between parts of the brain that are adjacent, hence making the extremities sexual. I'm not so sure about that as I don't really have a thing for hands or fingers at all.

The cause of this peculiarity seems to be highly resistant to analysis. One thing is for sure... we foot men get to experience an extra dimension of sexuality that apparently the non-foot man can't even imagine.

I have never hidden it from any of my girlfriends. They have all enjoyed it, I suppose because I never communicated even the slightest shame about it. I am very open and communicative about it, although I never call it a fetish or any such label. I simply tell them I like their feet and they love the attention.
 

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My younger sis has some creepy older dudes on her Snapchat somehow some way and she just trolls the hell out of them. Some of them have foot fetishes and she likes to take pictures of my feet and brother's and send it to them. Then they send her back how much they love her thinking it's her feet lol
 

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I don't have a foot fetish by any measure. But I do think that small, petite, feminine feet can be attractive. Much more attractive than a man's foot lol.

The other thing is that bare feet carry a suggestion of nudity, IMO. Women's clothing tends to show a lot more bare skin than men's clothing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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