"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

I got called "sweetheart", good sign or bad sign?

Vitanoid

Banned
Joined
May 15, 2010
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
I'm 15. I'm at a restaurant buffet and got done with my plate. A young waitress says "Can I take that plate, sweetheart?" and I say "yeah" and I look into her eyes for a second and she immediately looked into mine. I'm a good-looking guy by the way.

I have a feeling this was a bad sign. I think I talk too quietly and not frequently enough, and that's why I got called "sweetheart". I do walk slowly with my face completely relaxed, but talking loud and frequently would be challenging.

Also, today, some younger girl in line looked at me head to toe. Is this normal? I do workout, but I have only gained about 7 pounds of muscle so far.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

eaglez1177

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 24, 2008
Messages
1,320
Reaction score
21
Being called sweetheart in this case is definitely of no significance whatsoever lol. How old is this waitress? She probably just views you as a cute kid whos younger than you; nothing more. Like a younger brother.

And for the record, if you ever catch a girl checkin you out, fvckin DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT and talk to them!
 

Vitanoid

Banned
Joined
May 15, 2010
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
A few years older than me, at most.

Well, in this case, she is a few years younger than me and her mom is standing beside her. I have not learned to small talk yet anyway.
 

Reckoning

Don Juan
Joined
May 16, 2010
Messages
122
Reaction score
1
Do you want to know how this sounds?

OMG OMG I GOT CALLED A "SWEETHEART" BY A STRANGER WHOSE JOB IS TO BE POLITE WITH PEOPLE, WHAT DOES THAT MEAN, DOES SHE LIKE ME? SHE MUST LIKE ME, I LOOK GREAT! AND THEN THERE WAS THIS GIRL THAT PROBABLY CHECKED ME OUT!

Get over yourself, you are starting to make threads about everyday situations that you should never place importance on, let alone come here asking for advice about them.
 

Vitanoid

Banned
Joined
May 15, 2010
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
Reckoning said:
Do you want to know how this sounds?




Get over yourself, you are starting to make threads about everyday situations that you should never place importance on, let alone come here asking for advice about them.
You're just jealous cause you don't look as sexy as I do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
Vitanoid said:
You're just jealous cause you don't look as sexy as I do.
Agreed with Reckoning and eagz. Shut the fvck up dude, what are you like 5 years old.. These are all common sense questions and every day occurrences that you shouldn't even bother posting.
 

originaldj

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2005
Messages
160
Reaction score
7
I have no idea how you act in real life, but if its anything like this you should forget about girls for a while and try to develop your personality

Vitanoid said:
You're just jealous cause you don't look as sexy as I do.
 

CarlitosWay

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 8, 2009
Messages
830
Reaction score
24
Location
In the damn boonies...of Michigan
lol a a stripper and a waitress have two things in common especially in these days of recession, they BOTH want you to come back again with money to spend..and they'll gladly smile in your face and tell you sweet little things.
 

Reckoning

Don Juan
Joined
May 16, 2010
Messages
122
Reaction score
1
Lol 15 year old.
 

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
1,600
Reaction score
28
Location
California
I was at Denny's with my friends last night, the waiter called me "sir". I'm not sure if it's an IOI, I don't ride that way anyway, but I am a pretty good looking guy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

eaglez1177

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 24, 2008
Messages
1,320
Reaction score
21
Hahahaha
 

Huffman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2007
Messages
1,499
Reaction score
166
I was at a strip club on a friend's stag night. One of the strippers came over and complimented me on my hair. WOW IM SUCH A STUD
 

Ice882

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2009
Messages
451
Reaction score
19
great sign bro
 
Top