"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I got banned from the forums at Plenty of Fish!

zekko

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I don't understand why they would ban you for suggesting you go no contact on an ex or whatever it is. Did they delete your thread or can you post a link to it?

Gentlemen, you all need to wander over to the eHarmony forums.
I will let the experience speak for itself .
Try the "Dating" and "Relationships" forums for some enlightenment
I probably need to check out more dating forums. I read rsd once in awhile but that isn't all that different from here.

This forum can wear on me at times what with the very jaded nature of most posters, plus all the emphasis put on sex, sex, sex.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zekko said:
I don't understand why they would ban you for suggesting you go no contact on an ex or whatever it is. Did they delete your thread or can you post a link to it?


I probably need to check out more dating forums. I read rsd once in awhile but that isn't all that different from here.

This forum can wear on me at times what with the very jaded nature of most posters, plus all the emphasis put on sex, sex, sex.

The whole thread was deleted.

I guess if you aren't a known crybaby who whines constantly on the site that they know will be around for years to add to their membership count and you actually post something of positive good use you have an "agenda" to help users leave Plenty of Fish. Posters on those dating forums have been there for years and years complaining to one another. It's kind of sad.
 

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Jitterbug said:
Don't know about that, Solo. Mark Zuckabugga's GF is rather ugly. Admittedly she's been with him since before he was Mr Facebook though.
You really believe mark has been "faithful" since the explosion of FB and all the puss that's been thrown at him?

:confused:
 

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Solomon said:
You really believe mark has been "faithful" since the explosion of FB and all the puss that's been thrown at him?

:confused:
+1 if I Could but I have to spread rep.

I don't believe the crazily rich person can ever be a total AFC.

Even on the first year of Facebook, Mark Zuckerberg had offers from the heads of top companies to buy it. He was treated to private jet flights, extravagant dinners, probably lovely ladies. Maybe he was an AFC when he started out, who really knows, but after having his ass kissed, his dvck pampered, powerful men from powerful firms investing in his creation even a full blown omega will start developing alpha tendencies.

Think about, most AFC's are AFC's because they are insecure about SOMETHING. Maybe they are not good looking enough, not receiving enough love, whatever the cause doesn't matter. But if you were treated like you were best, a king, a genius, worth a billion dollars, flown around everywhere, everyone needs your creation, talked about constantly because you are famous: that would make any man a hell of a lot less insecure.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Solomon said:
You really believe mark has been "faithful" since the explosion of FB and all the puss that's been thrown at him?

:confused:
I don't know, the Beta in him looks very damn strong.
 

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DropZone3 said:
The fact that you got banned from POF says a lot about them.
So far I haven't been deleted. The thread was deleted and my posting "privileges" revoked for two years. I had only posted two threads and a few responses in like two days. It's just a side thing to me. No big deal.

Its amazing how one single thread offering advice get's you banned for two years there. They'd rether the desperate hang around for as long as possible while giving crap "advice".
 

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TALL MIDGET WITH DDs SEEKING good hearted man. Believe that? Me either. How about there's a better free dating site instead of POF, called TheyFall?
 

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Borknagar said:
Oh jeez... I bet if you were a chick and posted that it would be ok. There is a huge double standard there it's a fright. If a guy posts a topic criticizing womens behaviors he quickly shamed and the topic is deleted, if a women does the same it's hands across the world for her. The moderators there are hardcore manginas.
At least guys are waking up to this fact. It's quite bad really how endemic this behavior is.
 

Let's Get Real

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POF and david deangelo have something set up. The last thing he wants is other people being able to give advice. His services aren't needed then.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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