"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i got amovie...of don juan whoopey!!!!

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when i first came(15) in to sosuave...my purpose was tol learn who don juan was and why was he known as the greatest seducer to ever have lived!!!

I just downloaded a movie called DON JUAN DE MARCO

the movie is really great....the character is fully embraced by the way he was...im seiing right now and its really good..

You guys should rent it...its really great...the intensity and the way he expresses himself its magnificent..u wouldn't think hes and actor...

i will try my best to get someway in to my email...so i can send it..to some of u guys...no promises right now
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The one with Johnny Depp?
 
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fantastic movie!

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The one with Johnny Depp?
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yes...it is
..I love it
IF youve seen it... very good movie...i love the accent...its great..!!!!

I love how they made the movie...it had Don juan written all over...i've seen one in spanish is not as great as this one...!!

Not a very big fan of johny depp movies...but this i like...!!
 
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I hope you realize that movie has nothing to do with the original Don Juan other than the fact that it's about a lunatic pretending to be him.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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don juan is an ancient womanizer, i forgot what though, rome greece not sure. he was supposedly the greatest seducer to ever live and used women to his every whim or something like that


EDIT: i'll shut up now LOL
 
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Wow, I don't know whats more amazing that you didn't know who Don Juan is or that the answer that was given was completely off.

Don Juan is a fictional charachter of a book of the same name written by Cervantes. Set in 17th or 18th century Spain. Cervantes did however did base Don Juan after a handful of Spanish knights. Kind of a crap read, full of old english and prose. A better read is Casanova's (who was real) biography of his life, much easier to understand.
 
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It's like 5 bucks at Best Buy.
 
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If you want to see something similar and better go see "The Mask of Zorro". Antonio Banderas goes from being a drunken thief (AFC) to turn into a great swordsman who save people and seduce's Catherine Zeta Jones (DJ).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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