"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I got "AA"

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mpw o may be a little drunk but aa dos not stand for that kind of problem

my aa is for goin and talkin to girls and i got it bad.

i think peoples r judgin me.. i think imnot good enough for the girl.. im ashamed of speaking..

help me men what can id o?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OMG I think I caught califragilitcitis. Isn't that the new thing that is going around that men use to hold themselves down?

I think I caught it. Now I am afraid to say hello to a woman that I know already.

I swear mankind can invent some wierd disorders and then suddenly everyone uses it to explain their lack of balls with.
 

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What do you expect us to say? Don't tell me you don't already know what to do.
 
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