Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wtfffffOriginally posted by The Master Disaster
K this make sound weird, but I saw the movie "The girl next door," and now i have lost all feelings for anyone in my highschool. This is good and bad.. I now dont care to talk to women but now I dont really wanna go out with them. DAM YOU ELISHA CUTHBERT.
I dont recommend you see the movie. Once you see elisha cuthbert you lose all other feelings for anyother women. I'm serious.Originally posted by teencraft
wtfffff
I've seen it...Originally posted by The Master Disaster
I dont recommend you see the movie. Once you see elisha cuthbert you lose all other feelings for anyother women. I'm serious.
She is SOOOO FINEeee!Originally posted by teencraft
I've seen it...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I wish this site had the ignore feature.Originally posted by The Master Disaster
She is SOOOO FINEeee!
ditto. Pretty subjective post.Originally posted by teencraft
I wish this site had the ignore feature.
It does.Originally posted by teencraft
I wish this site had the ignore feature.