This is hypothtical, but Im a bit too young to catch a STD and Im interested in a HB 9 that probably had sex once or twice. Ive heard alot about being caught in the LJBF zone if you don't make "the move." I dont want to be friends but I dont want to catch HIV. How can I make the move yet keep my virginity? (So how can I get a LTR>)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I got a problem and am only 16
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
T-Roy
Don Juan
You don't need to have sex to be her boyfriend. I dunno why people keep saying that. If you've got a good relationship sex will follow. I couldn't see having sex with someone I didn't consider my girlfriend.
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If you think she has HIV why do you want to get with her at all? I guess it's for experience and because she is hot, but yeah you don't have to have sex with her if she is your GF.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
hahaha...zack77766 said:
Um I bet you $500 she doesn't have HIV (if shes your age). Most kids don't carry STDs until like the 18+ age group (unless they're hoes). HIV is also very rare, don't assume just because you think she's hot she probably is infected with something.
Hey, you can even get some condoms
IceCream
Don Juan
STDs are very popular in highschool these days. Shoot, even middle schoolers get them now.
Condoms, condoms, condoms.
Condoms, condoms, condoms.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Wow. I'm talking about STDs in my Health Class. HIV is hard to get. You basically have to seek out HIV to get it. Now with that said, it's really easy to get an STD. If you're going to go into battle, at least wear a helmet. The best way is to wait, but if you must fight, fight the good fight.
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
....Bling if that was the case we wouldn't call it the aids epidemic. I can't believe what people learn in school.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
dude you can be any age and catch a STD, anyone can get one. which is pretty sad thinking about it. if you have sex wear a condom.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Do a search on flirting/kino/kiss test. there is losts of ways to get a girlfriend without having sex first. Most relationships don't last too long if they have sex first because, that's what it was based on.
So, ALWAYS wear a condom! When, the time is right.
So, ALWAYS wear a condom! When, the time is right.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
LostAndConfused
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If she's an HB9 in high school she may have had sex more than once or twice....