“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ThisIsSparta

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While i agree that men dont care about her college degree, i have to say that some of my best fvcks were college girls or girls with degree.

That said, my worst fvcks were also with college girls, leaving the women without degree mostly in between extremes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I do find booksmart girls very sexy at its definetly a plus but only if I was already attracted to her anyway. What do I care if some land whale has a Ph.D ?

Update:

I hung out with a "Boss Babe" back in November/December of last year she was older than me (46) that I met off Bumble but still had a decent body, especially for her age. We hooked up and it was awful. No foreplay, no bj's Needless to say I sent her text after telling her I don't see it going anywhere. These women IMO just don't know how to turn off their career mindset. I recently dated a low key chill 28 year old and it was completely different
TLDR: Younger girls are better than older girls and water is wet.
 

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I still am in shock that women's accomplishments(school, professions) are less important than how flirty, nurturing and compliant(basically, feminine) I am with him.

Why do guys still ask what education level women have attained?
Why do they still ask what they do for a living?

I would like to keep these things private and confidential. Can't there be other things to ask to get to know me?
The pressure to perform like a man is still there or they wouldn't be asking those specific questions. The questions in the 'getting to know you stage' would be different.

Women think they have to perform the way men perform.
Why do guys still ask what education level women have attained?
We don't really care what you do. :devil:
Boring convo starter maybe and way to be polite I guess?
But yeah, not really giving a flying fvck about it. Plus you might get an idea of what interest person have in their lives too I suppose.
Still not giving a fvck tho.:rofl::whistle:
Why do they still ask what they do for a living?
Ditto as in the above.

We men do not give a flying fart about what you do professionally, how much money you make and how successful you are.
That is all masculine values and in that realm which we men compete in. Not women.

All we guys do care about is the following:
  • How good person you really are
  • Stable personality and do not have emotional disorders of any kind
  • Do not have an dad issues.
  • Do not create lots of drama, we guys hate that (mostly).
  • Raised in stable family by both your parents and have strong father figure.
    (Single moms are the largest source of the children that most likely fail in life as adults; as for example but limited too --> criminals, and other creepy stuff, social failures and mental illness). Kids raised by their single fathers do way better in life, not a surprise here though.
  • Not single mom with baggage. We do not want to raise another man's child and be cucks.
  • That you are feminine.
  • That you are not a feminist. :down:
  • That you are submissive and follow the lead of your king.
  • How cute/hot you are and that you keep yourself in shape.
  • That you do not hang around with male "friends".
    (Women and men cannot be friends. The sexual part binds us and divides us too and will always be there.)
  • If you want to stick around with us for the long run you'd better stop advertise yourself to other men on social media - delete your I.G. account etc. (An I.G. account strictly for business can be ok with limits applied), and/or other social media apps with thirsty simps.
  • Good care taker.
  • Can cook and make a proper dinner, plus take care of a household.
  • Is not the town bicycle as in you have not been shared around the whole town, (E.g. low body count)
  • Not being a 304 in other words. Party girls are fun and so 304 is just entertainment for us. But we will never wife/gf you up.
  • Not a nagging bytch that makes our lives miserable after we come from a long hard days work.
  • That you have something between your ears so you can hold a good conversation.
  • Good in bed, give a good head and have real desire for us.
A part from that its up to us to be your man and perform in the real world and put the food on the table and keep our families safe from the outside world. :up:

I guess that covers the most.
Anything I forgot guys that you might want to add to the bullet list?
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Bumble is full of nice looking 40-something y/o women with upper level management/VP jobs. It cracks me up when the first thing they mention is something about their job. No one cares but you sweet t!ts. When are you going to stop being so self absorbed and learn what does attract men. Automatic left swipe.
Bumble has advertised to career oriented women. This was their Super Bowl ad in 2019....


Yes, a lot of women on Bumble like to hype up their career accomplishments and possibly their advanced degree.

I've noticed women who are highly educated Masters/PHD degrees
Think that for some reason it's something to be impressed about
However In my experience, these women tend to be least feminine, and combative
Don't get me wrong some of these women are sexy and I understand why they have the energy they do (high positioned careers etc)
However, I tell these women I'm more impressed by how feminine a woman is than their degrees. It blows my mind how women think we judge them on the same scale they judge us
Rollo Tomassi has said many times that women equate their personal value with their romantic interaction value. Those two are not the same.

A woman who is a lawyer, psychologist, medical doctor, college professor, or middle/upper business manager has value in the working world. That working world value doesn't translate into romantic relationships. In fact, in a lot of cases, it has negative value in romantic relationships. A woman with an advanced degree and high powered career often times is a poor fit for being a quality girlfriend or wife because she's too obsessed with her work to be an attentive girlfriend/wife with many feminine characteristics.

It's very difficult in the mating marketplace to find a woman with an advanced career and a high powered job who will make a good girlfriend. It would be an acceptable screening method to screen out all women with advanced degrees. Very few women with advanced degrees make good girlfriends.
 

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They become too masculine generally.

It's like we've flipped society around, and told men and women to be the exact opposite of what makes them attractive to the other sex.

If I go after a woman with a PhD, it's becomes she gives me a boner.

Women have become the men they want.
 

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Learning in school is a skillset just like anything else, the degree is a show of this skill set, that is all.

I deal with recruiters a lot in the past from my last job, you wouldn't believe some of the wages these companies will offer for a Masters Degree, sometimes like $11/H, why? Because the heads of these companies don't want to be undermined, you'll hear from them about how when they pay market wages, it results in nothing but interpersonal issues, they also know these people need work experience for their resume to eventually secure that higher wage, likely at some corporation who's actually willing to pay it.
 

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Women project everything. What they admire, they feel like they have to become.

I’d rather be the guy with the degree, power, status, and feel like I can give her the world if she was worthy, this is the masculine imperative.

The feminine imperative is she feels she can give all of her feminine charms to a truely high value guy.

This is actual human sexually. What we have today in modern society is anti-sexuality, probably created by the powers that be that wants to control people.

Indoctrinated people have no idea how to be sexual.

This is why “dumb” people procreate and multiply by the dozens and highly educated (indoctrinated) people are often living sexless lives.

This is also why a lot of business oriented and highly successful women often go to places like Vegas and Hawaii and hook up with beach bums and street guys. They themselves want an escape from their anti-sexual lives.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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