I got a little problem...

[seek&destroy]

Some of you may not see this as a problem...anyways..

I'm turning 22 in 3 weeks, and I'm still a virgin. 3 of my best buddies know that I'm a virgin and told me they want to get me an escort for my birthday. My best buddy mentions it every time we chill. However, I don't want my first time to be with an escort. How the fvck do I break this to them? I've tried going the honest way about it, by saying that I'd rather do it with a girl I care about (and one that cares about me at the same time), but they are still pushing it. What should I do? How the fvck do I break this to them.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

If they don't respect your choices they aren't being good friends. This is THEIR fantasy, not yours, and I believe they just want to live vicariously through you. If they keep threatening to get an escourt, make other plans for your birthday. Why is it such a big deal to lose your virginity before you're 23?

 

[sadora]

my buddies and I did that for a friend, except that we told him that she was a girl we know from out of town and just wanted to party. maybe your friends need to be more creative about it.

but honestly, if you're not comfortable with that idea then just don't do it. They will probably bug you that you're gay or whatever because that's what guys do to each other, we are all ****s to each other but fvck them, it's your choice how and when you want to loose it.

 

[seek&destroy]

Just as I thought...thanks guys. I want to see that they respect my choices but if this persists, it's obvious they don't.

 

[seek&destroy]

Also, Sadora, how did he react to it? Did he do her?

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Some of you may not see this as a problem...anyways..

I'm turning 22 in 3 weeks, and I'm still a virgin. 3 of my best buddies know that I'm a virgin and told me they want to get me an escort for my birthday. My best buddy mentions it every time we chill. However, I don't want my first time to be with an escort. How the fvck do I break this to them? I've tried going the honest way about it, by saying that I'd rather do it with a girl I care about (and one that cares about me at the same time), but they are still pushing it. What should I do? How the fvck do I break this to them.

Just do your thing man. Don't live in reaction and fall into the mindset of worrying about what other people think. It will happen when it's time for it to happen.

Explain to them that you live in your reality and not in reaction to others. If there is a tornado coming towards you do you look around to see what others are doing? No, you do what you want to do, run like hell.

 

[Liberated]

Some of you may not see this as a problem...anyways..

I'm turning 22 in 3 weeks, and I'm still a virgin. 3 of my best buddies know that I'm a virgin and told me they want to get me an escort for my birthday. My best buddy mentions it every time we chill. However, I don't want my first time to be with an escort. How the fvck do I break this to them? I've tried going the honest way about it, by saying that I'd rather do it with a girl I care about (and one that cares about me at the same time), but they are still pushing it. What should I do? How the fvck do I break this to them.

I don't see what your hangup is about the escort. There is nothing special about your virginity.

 

[Exhumed]

Even still what a pathetic existence....he's found this website, he knows about pickup and if he puts his mind to it there's no way he can't lose it on his own soon.

Tell your boys to take you out clubbing, try and get laid, use what you've learned here....plus telling girls it's legitimately your birthday will increase your chances!

 

[sadora]

Also, Sadora, how did he react to it? Did he do her?

yeah he did, he just thought she was really into him. We never told him the truth but that little boost of confidence helped out in the end.

 

[seek&destroy]

Exhumed ur my new hero! I'm totally taking you up on that. That is what I will do as soon as I see them again!

Thanks a bunch!

 

[drak_ool]

I'd rather do it with a girl I care about (and one that cares about me at the same time)

I think this is your real problem... You value your v-card way to much. Dude, you're 22, it's been about time to lose it for at least 4-5 years.

When you gonna find a girl that you really care for, what are you gonna do when she leaves you cuz the sex is terrible?

Better get some experience now and when you find your girl you f.uck her into submission, not become a pathetic AFC who tries to please her any other possible way, but can't "please" her, if you know what I mean

Also, I don't endorse the escort idea if you're not into the idea, but go find yourself some decent looking girl and just pound the life out of her for god's sake...

 

[Exhumed]

Yeah if you can get a girl to come home with you go for it man, these girls want sex, they're at a club...

 

[seek&destroy]

I think this is your real problem... You value your v-card way to much. Dude, you're 22, it's been about time to lose it for at least 4-5 years.

When you gonna find a girl that you really care for, what are you gonna do when she leaves you cuz the sex is terrible?

Better get some experience now and when you find your girl you f.uck her into submission, not become a pathetic AFC who tries to please her any other possible way, but can't "please" her, if you know what I mean

Also, I don't endorse the escort idea if you're not into the idea, but go find yourself some decent looking girl and just pound the life out of her for god's sake...

there's a small problem with that...i still live at home

 

[seek&destroy]

I used to have no proble talking to hotties back several years ago, but I had a terrible ONEITIS experience that left me scarred because of the way it ended. I posted about it on here years ago, this girl was basically avoiding me probably because I came on too strong. Since then, I've been less and less confident. This is probably why I haven't gotten any yet. I mean, I really fell for this chick, and she just brushed me off and on top of that, she acted like a complete b1tch.

She appologized for everything once I started ignoring her, but even so, my game has become terrible ever since that incident.

 

[Joe Stud]

be your own man first & foremost. do what you want.

with that said, you are 22 & have been on this website for almost 4 yrs. it's not a big sin to get broke in by a pro... especially if she knows you are a virgin and is willing to show you how to make a lady scream with ecstacy. just a thought.