"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I got a little dilemma with girls I work with

HArry_balZonYa

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Hey guys, my name is Hazy and this my first post. hopefully you guys can understand my dilemma.

Alright, so I was chillin up at work last night and towards the end of my shift the people who take over for me are usually a bunch of chicks who are actually really attractive fine dizzles now that I visualize it all again. Anywho, I was happy because I was going home after a good day and I started talking to my MGT about something I read on a Maxim magazine, or Men's Fitness about how the best time to seduce a woman is 14 days into her ovulation period...well right after I said that, a few of the girls in the other areas of the store came around and just gave me some weird ass vibes. apparently women can either hear better than guys, their nosy, or I need to turn down the volume on my mp3 headphones. Well they all kinda stood there and I kinda just walked away but not in a negative way I guess....

Alright, I feel sorta like I might have gone too far with it. Thing is the place that me and MGT run is run by just us. and so we get to kick back while working and just talk about all kinds of **** like girls, and cars and football and we work 12 hours and so thats a lot of time to talk about what we like talking about the most. I kind of forgot that we werent the only ones in the place.

ok so long story short, I kinda feel like I said something that might have ruined my chances with any of these girls.

What do you guys think would be the best way to handle a situation like this
A)apologize to them about saying this

b)stay away from them and just go mack on the girls who you got numbers from throughout the night at work

c)forget about it and act like nothing happened

d)masturbate to lots of porn right now
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yapper

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how bout you stop being a sissy and caring so much about stupid sh!t like this?
 

HArry_balZonYa

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dude you must think I'm like you, a laidless guy but you're wrong. Im not afraid of women, its just Ive never been caught by girls talking about seducing them ..
 
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